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Hi, 12 days ago I had sex with a sex worker.  I gave her unprotected cunnilingus.  And she performed unprotected fellatio.  I ejaculated in her mouth.  It wasn't the thing I was planning...  She was Australian, with no obvious cuts or anything - nor did I have any.  The laws here require that sex workers are checked every 3 months.  I have previously tested negative for HIV.  I went to get tested as a precaution.  I read all of these forums and didn't feel particularly concerned, but just wanted to make sure.  So the nurse from the sexual health centre rings today.  Everything clear except HIV inconclusive.  Based on these fora this was the last thing I expected.  I didn't even inquire as to the sort of test it was.  Anyhow, I am now going quietly mad.  For the record I have been monogamous for 8 years apart from this incident.  Married, but lonely, with the two most beautiful children in the world.  Anyone else had this experience?
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186166 tn?1385259382
an inconclusive test does not mean "positive".
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You were never at risk in your situation.
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