HIV!!! Question regarding unprotected oral sec. Worried

[AbhiLife]

Hi,

I am 29 years old male had sex with CSW

I recently had sex with CSW (assuming CSW is sex worker). Protected vaginal sex and unprotected oral sex.

During the initiall kissing and touching phase I tried to rub my unprotected penis on the vagina (without vaginal fluid around) and the CSW stopped me thinking I am going to insert because she was against the unprotected sex but she understood I was not inserting and allowed me to rub around.  Later she gave me blow job (unprotected) for around 10 mins and then put a condom around my penis and we had vaginal sex(protected) for 10mins. And then I removed the condom and she gave me another blow job (unprotected) for 10-15 mins. And second condom to have vaginal sex (protected). and finally removed the condom to get a final blow job (unprotected). This whole thing lasted about an hour.

Now there is a series of protected and unprotected instances which I am worried about contracting HIV. But I have managed to have protected sex for insertion. I am so worried with the tests now. does it infect a man receiving head (unprotected) from a women?

There are couple of things which I remember during the course,
1. She never allowed me to kiss rough because it would spoil the lips with cuts and bruises. I am assuming the lady was concerned about the lip being done or she is good with her oral care.
2. She never allowed me to put my penis inside her vagina without a condom (Which I wouldn't anyways)
3. She never took my cum inside her mouth during the final ejaculation. She kept asking me if I will be shooting so she doesn't swallow my sperm.
4. Her first condition is no Anal sex
5. I called her the next day and checked if she is HIV infected for which she replied not to worry, she does not have HIV aids and she is healthy.

Even after speaking to her and analysing the situation I am not at peace. I had nightmares for two days which I had sweat during the night, not sure if its the anxiety or the virus :(

I took tests on the second day to have some peace of mind. But still I had to write. Test results yet to come.
test given for HIV, STD's like chlamydia - blood and PCR

Can someone please give me some information or assurance that it was safe sex or what should I do? which doctor to visit after receiving the test results? urologists or general physician should be fine??

I will be taking another test on 3rd month (or 84 day window period). My mind is occupied with HIV and my laptop is filled with HIV information websites.

Regards,
Abhi

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[AbhiLife]

I got my test results for Hiv today. Took this test 11 weeks and 2 days after exposure for peace of mind. It came back negative. :-) can I consider this as conclusive. It was a 4th generation combo test for antigen and antibody p24. Thank U for all your replies

[AbhiLife]

Yes. You said I am not at risk of HIV. I am getting this now :)

[Vance2335]

Did you not read what I told you about your risk?

[AbhiLife]

Sorry. But wanted to know if this fever is anything to with HIV. I have read there are people who get this fever and goes away as a very early sign. that's my worry

[Vance2335]

This is a HIV specific forum, any STD related questions post in the STD forum please.

[AbhiLife]

By the way this is my first sexual intercourse and blow job. So I am worried

[AbhiLife]

Hi Vance2335,

Thank you for the assuance.

I had this sexual act on april 15th 2014 and just now had a fever like cold. I was shivering until I put some warm clothes and set my mind to adjust. I had like cold and cough even before the sexual act. How you do see this??

Today I tool test for chlamydia PCR.. They inserted a stick like thing inside my pensi hole. Can this make the body vulnerable for fever.??

regads,
Abhi

[Vance2335]

Reread what I wrote about your risk.

[AbhiLife]

Hi Vance2335,

Thank you for your response.

In case CSW has lied about good health. should I then take a test to have things in order?

I'm worried and have this question :(

Regards,
Abhi

[Vance2335]

I don't see a reason for HIV testing, so no reason to see a Dr.

[AbhiLife]

Hi Vance2335,

Thank you for your reply and assurance.

Which doctor should I see after I get test results?
1. General Physician
2. HIV specialist
3. Urologist

(The country where I live, its difficult to get a English speaking doctor)


regards,
Abhi

[Vance2335]

You had no HIV risk.