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HIV Risk and My symptoms

Hi there, about 3 weeks ago I had sex with a legal sex worker. I received as far as I am aware protected oral sex using a condom and protected vaginal sex, she was on top followed by me getting on top. At one point I did get slightly soft but the condom never came off. She finished me off by giving me a handjob, however the condom ripped and she continued to masturbate me until I ejaculated. Is it possible the I have been infected, especially because the condom ripped during the handjob, and vaginal fluids may have been present on the condom.

I have been experiencing muscle pain particularly in my calves muscles of my legs and some joint pain in my ankles and wrists and fingers. I also get headaches and diarrhoea.
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188761 tn?1584567620
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No. Practically impossible. No risk.
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480448 tn?1426948538
Because the condom was intact during insertive sex.  Nothing else you did you put you at risk...even if her genital secretions got on you.

NO risk.
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Why was it no risk Teak? Because if the condoms on thats all that matters? I would really appreciate a reply, sorry if I am being annoying.?
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Is this because.... the condom never came off or because what?
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You did not have an exposure.
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I only went slightly soft, not completely
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One last question... When I was having sex I got a bit soft, I was in the missionary position at the time, i don't know why maybe nerves or something. But would it be possible for vaginal fluids to enter the condom then and infect me, I am sure that the condom never came off though, does this pose risk?
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188761 tn?1584567620
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No. STI's have nothing to do with your discomforts. However, obsession certainly does.  You must have heard they say 'You become what you imagine'. Mind is very powerful, it can do a lot of stuff to your body, you'd be surprised. Every thing you describe as HIV symptom seems more like symptoms associated with anxiety. Just my 2 cents.
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Can you help to make sense of my headaches i've been having for the last week, and the muscle pains particularly in my calves and occasional joint pains, I also feel like I have a sore throat coming on. Could it be another STI?
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No and you aren't going to make history either.
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Has there ever been a case when someone has gotten HIV from masturbation and when vaginal fluids were outside and entered the urethra?
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Thank you and God Bless You.
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186166 tn?1385259382
if you are having health concerns, see a dr...its NOT hiv related
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Why do you think I am experiencing joint and muscle pains? Is it an initial symptom of HIV infection?

Could it be anxiety or stress?
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186166 tn?1385259382
once exposed to air, hiv becomes inactive and unable to infect.

you had NO risk
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