HIV Risk

[biglifeMistakes]

Hello,
Last night I was in a strip club having a lap dance. The dancer just sat on my erect dick for a few minutes and did not move at all (except up and down on my dick head). I had my pants on, but for some reason the boxers were not covering my dick only the pants were. When I pushed her after like 5 minutes I realized all the area on my pants where my dick head is was wet from the outside and all around. So my pants in that area were so wet from her vaginal secretions. I realized she was sort of ******* me on top of the pants and she would not move on purpose even when I pushed her several times to other positions, trying to infect me with some std, hiv I guess.. What is the risk of catching HIV if my pant was so wet  in the same location my uretheral opening? I wasn't wearing jeans, so the slacks were kind of wet inside and outside. The secretions seem to have gone down from the outside(2 inches diameter of wet pants).

Thank you.

[biglifeMistakes]

It is not just a lap dance. It was a naked vagina sitting on top of my erect dick for like 5 minutes, but my pants were on and boxers for some reason were out of way, they were not wet not even a drop at all that's how I know. Vaginal fluid was all over the pants concentrated on one area (around the uretheral opening is). Teak, I thank you and diver for your replies and I appreciate the hard work you guys are doing here. I wish you the best.
I always wake up and hope a cure is found for hiv. I check some websites research is progressing, but no break through yet...
I will try to remove HIV fear from my head and concentrate on other things in my life.
Thank you again.

[Teak]

You never had a risk from a Lap Dance.

[biglifeMistakes]

Teak Please can you comment on the above. I have been so nervous and my hands have been trembling since yesterday. Thank you. Was I at risk? And if yes is it significant or small risk? Thank you.

[diver58]

Yes I understand your anxiety. Let Teak or LIzzie to come online and respond on your question. In my humble opinion, real peace of mind certainly associated with mutually committed monogamous partnership,,, sex ,,, protected or unprotected,,, doesn't matter there. Wish you all the best.

[biglifeMistakes]

Thank you diver. The only reason I go to strip clubs those days is I want peace of mind. So this way I don't perform actual sex. I had multiple lap dances but this is the only one that concerned me because it was not just rubbing, but she sat and never moved from that one spot maybe moving up and down, and then I realized my pants in that spot only were really really wet. That's why I am asking Teak and Lizz for further confirmations before I get all crazy. Thank you again for your response.

[diver58]

While Teak and Lizz to comment ,,,,,,,,, I am very clear that you were never at a risk of HIV just by rubbing her vagina on your pants

[biglifeMistakes]

I am not sure if she was trying to penetrate me. It seems to be the case, this why my pants were so wet in one position only after just like 5 minutes. So I should convince my self for now fabric of pants is as safe as condom. Teak and Lizzie do you also think I am safe?

[diver58]

With pants on, you need not to worry about. You did not penetrate her,,, so your risk is zero. Vaginal secretions will not transmit HIV through the fabric of your pants.