HIV and Massae Exp

Yesterday went to massage palour and got a massage by a 40yr Asian.
Started off with just massage but after 30min she flipped me over.
Then she rubbed my penis while i kissed her nipples.
She finished me off and cleaned me off with a hot towel from her heated towel cube.
Am I at risk, I am married and want to have sex with my wife.

[Teak]

No you were not at risk.

[Justinlakeview]

I have a problem you don't.

[tomMulligan]

No unprotected penetration is equivalent to NO RISK. Kissing does not pose any risks as well. You had no risk and yes you may have sex with your wife. Take note to use condom properly in all the time and dont share needles.

[grants365]

Teak, why is that - Sorry to bother.

[grants365]

Lizzie?  Moderators?

[grants365]

This was from a handjob, that was my exposure.  When she cleaned me off I have no clue is that towel was used?

[NickOne7]

You were NEVER at risk of contracting HIV via a handjob - Even if the towel had fluids on it, Even if it got inside your penis. Still NO RISK

Hope this helps

[tomMulligan]

HIV is a very difficult virus to transmit.  Comparable to other viruses, it is a very WEAK and unstable virus that succombs to the environment rapidly.  It needs basically a set of near perfect circumstances to allow for infection.  Therefore, a person CANNOT get HIV from environmental surfaces, like toilet seats, manicure/barber equipment, shower stalls, drinking glasses, toothbrushes, etc etc.  The virus quickly becomes inactive when it is outside of its host (the body).  This is why infection from inanimate objects is impossible.  This is also why mutual masturbation with exposure to a partner's gential (genital) fluids is also NOT a risk in any way.  This also is the case with cuts, abrasions, cracked cuticles, etc.  Those things make no difference when it comes to risk, as the virus is outside of its host, rendering it inactive

[grants365]

So hand/gential contact isnt a risk?  HIV is transmitted from sexual acts "sex." And other drug incidents?  The scenario she was + and the towel was used by someone prior whom was + it could never be transmittted?  There has been no cases of handjobs and it isnt a low risk...its a no risk?

[LIZZIE LOU]

hiv is NOT transmitted in the manner in which you are describing.

transmission takes place INSIDE the body...when a penis is INSIDE a vagina / anus.

you had NO risk !

[Vance2335]

You have been answered over and over, it is time to accept no risk and move on.

[grants365]

So no one has seem HIV transmission during a hand job and used towel incident?

The towel was warm, in one of those towel warmers. Does any of this matter?

[Teak]

No it doesn't matter, you never had an exposure.

[grants365]

Why do we think there is a risk involved with a handjob?

I see many posters here with same risk.

[Teak]

They aren't here with a risk, masturbation is not a risk and you've been told several times now.

[grants365]

I dont why either. I mean handjobs are not sex and shouldnt be able to transfer HIV right?
I am not trying to be a pest on this forum at all, I just cant get this out of my head. Some hours are good, some are bad.
I have had many handjobs in my day and I dont know this one is different...maybe cause I am married.

[Teak]

Seek professional mental help, HIV is not your concern.

[wantoutofhell]

NOOOO!!!!  There needs to be WAY more eduction on the risks!!! You are FINE.

[grants365]

I guess it makes sense that all she really did was grab it down there, right?

[tomMulligan]

Wow so you really want your self believe that you have the the virus. Stop perseverating on a virus you could not possibly have from that incident. I think the problem is your not believing the overwhelming and irrefutable evidence that you are not HIV infected.

[grants365]

No I dont want to believe that. I am just scared about the massage palour exp and dont want to pass this along to my wife.  
I Not trying to be a hard ***, just trying to get on with life but having some troubles since this.

[ricky_id]

Try to address your HIV fear at http://www.medhelp.org/forums/HIV-Anxiety-Support/show/595 or consult some sort of mental help. And I also say you had no risk.

[grants365]

So it doesnt matter if she had cuts on her hand, and rubbed the top of my penis?

Please, last question

[mike_no]

No risk. Please accept the advise we have to offer and move on. You did not have a risk. Do not post permutations further, they are only derivatives of the "what-if's" going on in your mind.