There isn't any more information to add that will change the assessment of "no risk." If a condom was damaged in that way it would rip to shreds when you put it on and you would have no doubt.
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I understood the 40 part but am afraid because she used her mouth to open the condom, she might have damaged the condom with her teeth. Can it break if damaged during sex.
Thank for the reassurance, hope my anxiety is activating all the symptoms. When can I get tested, finished my PEP 2 days ago.
If a condom fails it is a large visible rip down the seam and both of you would know. HIV is instantly inactivated in air so you had zero risk of HIV since the blood was all inactive. There is nothing you can add to your situation that would make it a risk since the science is 40 years old and very established, so you are going to be fine.
You interact with other people so colds and sore throats are to be expected. Likely the tiredness is in your imagination from the faulty fear that you are dying, but you aren't.