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HIV from Handjob from massage

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Recently i have been to asisan massage parlor. She asked me to wait for some time 20 mins since she was with another customer. She came back directly once she has done to another customer and then she did handjob.
I had my underwear, and i am not total naked. she tried to do by removing underwear, but i didnt accept, she did it on underwear and i ejaculated in my underwear. I am really worried now if she didnt clean her hands as she did massage to another and came, if she has any cuts or any vaginal liquid or precum on her hands and she did immediately to me.

Once she did to me i wiped my penis through paper tissue there. Is there any chance of virus from her hands ( because of any sexual liquids) present on my underwear and when i ejaculated the liquid and the virus mix up and enter to my prenis.
I am really scared and worried.  Also once she tried to put her hands inside my underwear but she kept only side and didnt touch my penis.

Please answer to my question , i am scared.
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Thanks a lot . Last year during April, I had similar encounter hand job 3 times. After 8 days tested -ve antibody . After 24 days from incident had PCR and it is negative. On 34 day I was been hospitalized because of fever 104 and pains in body chest. As per complete blood count the lymphocytes are .9 %. Do you think tests didn't give proper results because of window. This year aug and sept I had similar hand jobs as said including sleeping makes with Pennie head touching cloth on massage bed and also during table shower. Risk of previous customer any sexual fluids on bed. I am really scared please look in to this all factors as we are planning to have a baby. Appreciate you answers
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NO risk.  It doesn't matter if it is one second or two hours, the virus cannot infect outside of the body.  The vrius starts becoming inactive as soon as it is exposed to the elements, it is not a long process.  

You did NOT have a risk, end of story.  Move on....
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I have explained this a few times before but I will do so again, the situation you are concerned with is totally implausible, HIV has NEVER been trasmitted in the way you are concerned yes thats NEVER.  I very much doubt that you are going to make history by becoming the first person in a 25+ years epidemic to become infected in this way.  The sort of sexual activity you describe happens every day all over the world, if this were a tranmision route we would know about it by now!  it just doesn't happen in the real world its even near on impossible to make it happen in a petri dish in a science lab this is because the virus is so fragile.

You see once the virus is exposed to the environment, not just air but a number of factors including PH, temp, moisture render the virus inactive and unable to transmit.  This is beacuse the virus has an outer shell, it needs this outer shell to be intact in order to latch on to the correct cells within the human body.  Without the shell it cannot infect it has nothing to do with fluid drying etc.. it is the shell that is the important factor.  Imagine a soap bubble popping, this is what the shell is like.  It is for this reason that environmental exposure just does not happen.  Your situation is an environmental exposure no matter what spin you try and put on it.

This type of transmission just simply does not occur in real life, we have years and years of scientifc studies which allow us to be completely confident in this.  There have also been studies on sero discordant couples (this means one is positive and one is negative) these couples engaged in all sexual activities but only used protection for penetrative anal or vaginal sex.  Not one of them yes NOT ONE of them became HIV positive.

Now can you see what your situation is both implausible and irrational?
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but as per scientists, the life time of virus is 2 hours at room temparature.. with the all the above scenrios or activities performed the virus can live and it has chance of entering my body through penis head..
or touching the penis.

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You thinking is irrational because hiv becomes inactive as soon as it makes contact with air.Full Stop.There is no seconds,minutes or hours.Its an extremely fragile virus.
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Can anyone reply on this. I am really scared
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I have read in an article from scientist research that the virus stays outside for 1-2 hours at room temperature.. it would only die at 68 C.

When the massage lady did handjob by touching pennis head or when i slept on table with face down and my pennis head touched the table or when another massage lady touched my underwear and did rubbed my pennis with underwear on and she kept hand inside.. in all this cases, if either the lady have virus or she didnt wash hands previous customer ejaculation or any small cuts or the table has pre cum where i slept face down.. with the 1-2 hour life time the virus can stay.. i am now worried a lot....

Is there any doctor who can advise me.
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You never had an exposure.
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Can anybody pls reply.
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in last month i had an encounter with another lady who did massage table shower durng that time she touched my pennis head and did rub my pennis..
also on the table shower table i slept face down and pennis on the table .. if previous customer had pre cum on the table (sexual fluids) and after 10 mins if i slept on that table if the head pennis touched the table and is there any chance of the previous customer vaginal fluids went to my pennnis head.....
there was gap of 10 mins .. as i came to table shower waited for 10 mins because there was a problem of water .. so the before customer and me is 10 mins gaps...

Also when she touched my pennis head and she rubbed, and if she has cuts .. is there any chance...

this kinds of situtation happend last year also i got tested for 8 days and then after 21 days the RNA one .. both came negative..

this year i had this kind of two times in Aug and sept .. i am really worried..
This is my last post
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Thank goodness you always wear a condom! That's a good thing!

Even if she had dirty hands it isnt possible to transmit the virus, read my last post regarding the ways in which HIV is transmitted.

To answer your last Q, HIV when exposed to the air DIES straightaway, so even if she secretions on her hand which contained the virus and she touched your penis you could not catch HIV in this way, not only that but she would have to be touching the head of your penis, and even then NO RISK, honestly you have NO RISK, so stop worrying, if you were to test you would only confirm what I have told you, forget about this honestly :)
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Always wear a condom even for handjob. in my scenario, i had my underwear and she did on top of that, she tried once to put hands inside.... her hands didnt touched my penis. but i am worried of she didnt wash hands and she directly did handjob on top of my underwear, when i ejaculated if the virus on my underwear tocuhes the pre cum and enters in to the pennis.
how much time the virus need to live. what happens if dead virus enters.
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NO RISK,

HIV is transmitted through the practices of unprotected anal/ vaginal sex and or the sharing of needles. You didnt engage in any of those activities so you should stop worrying, relax! youre okay! my advice though is to always wear a condom!!
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