HIV possibilities and symptoms...

Hi all,

Now I'm super anxious and scared about the infection of HIV. I made the worst mistake in my life in New Year's Eve. I hit the bar and met a guy there to have sex that night. I insisted him to wear the condom because it's my first time and I also don't want to have any consequences. Due to the influence of alcohol, we did three to four times that night but I am not sure whether there's ONE time not wearing the condom or the condom break off. But what I can sure is he didn't ejectulate for the whole night because he asked me to help him by oral sex which is not successful eventually.

After 4 to 5 days, I found out around 5 blisters on my upper mouth lip. Then I started feeling scared because I afraid it's herpes (esp HSV-2). Then I ran to hospital and A&E doctor said it's not HSV-2, it's only cold sores. And he gave me the cream to coat it and after like 3-4 days all blisters are gone. I have been consulting a few doctors including general physician, STD doctors and even A&E doctor. And I did two blood tests and one STD test check ( 7 days and 18 days after exposure respectively). I know there's a window period and it'd be more accurate after 3 months for the blood test. But I am super freak out about this so that's why I did the tests.

My questions are:
(1) After 18 to 19 days (today) I started feeling a bit sore throat. I am not sure whether because of the weather change or get infected on flu. But I searched it that the early symptoms of HIV is flu also. So I really feel scared about this. Apart from sore throat, I also have a mild diarrhea( like two to three times per day). Likewise, it can be part of the symptoms of HIV. Should I see the  doctors again?
(2) After getting tested ( STD one), I felt a bit uncomfortable on my lower part.Not sure whether this is the first time for me to do such test, or because there's something happened. Actually what is the risk for me to get infected due to the things happened in New Year's Eve???
(3) I know I am gonna take the test after 3 months exposure for sure. But is it still necessary to retake the STD test too?
(4) The doctor who took the samples from my vagina said my hymen is only half-broken, not entirely broken. I know it sounds weird but it also can explain why I was bleeding every time during sex in last time. So will it have high possibilities to get infected due to the blood?

I am now still super scared on this and feel deeply regret on what I did. I pray everyday that I won't get infected and I promise I will not do this again.

[Teak]

You know when to obtain your HIV test and any further question you have dealing with STDs need to be posted in the STD forum. You can find the link on the right had side of the page.

[susie128600]

What I want to ask is whether I have high risk and possibility to get infected in HIV based on my case. Not because i want to ask STD questions in HIV forum.

[Teak]

HIV is not a guessing and I will not guess on anyone's exposure.

[susie128600]

I understand your meaning, so I did the test and I also will keep do the routine blood testing. But it's just anxious and worrying.

[Teak]

Excessive alcohol consumption and sex, don't mix.