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HIV risk?

I am married, happily, and am expecteing a new baby in a few months.  I have had several sexual encounters over the past month and would like to know what sort of risk I am at regarding myself, wife and baby.  I have already told my wife about my actions out of guilt, etc.  And we are trying to work things out.  

1:  About 2 months ago I met 2 prostitutes, Oral sex with condom from both, no touching them except on breasts, outside of vagina.  No vaginal sex, or oral sex on them.  Risks?  

2: Met a CSW at hotel and had hand job, she used her spit for lube.  No blood noticed.  No other sexual contact.  Risks?

3: Went to prostitute and didn't have any oral or vaginal sex.  She did touch herself a bit and then placed her hand on my penis for a few minutes of hand job.  I ejaculated on her face at end.  Risks?

4: Went to Strip Club, girl took out penis and placed a few kisses on penis shaft and head, placed head in mouth for 2 seconds.  Risks?

5: 2 weeks ago visited prostitute and had both protected vaginal and oral sex, same condom used for both.  Condom did not appear to slip or break.  After pulling condom off noticed she had begun her period, tiny bit of blood on outside of condom.  Risks?  

I was recently diagnosed with a genital wart, does this change any other risk factors?

Thanks.
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186166 tn?1385259382
forget it ! ! !
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I know I have been told my exposures are "no risk" and I have already tested negative at 7 weeks, but I was going to test at the 12 week mark next week just to get that deep sigh of relief feeling.  

However I am just finishing up the final shot, this Friday, of my Hep B vaccination rapid dose schedule.  I have read in a few places that this can cause a false positive.  

Should I wait a bit longer, couple of weeks,  to do the HIV test, just do it and not worry, or just forget all together about the test?
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186166 tn?1385259382
NO and you never had a risk
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Would steroid cream, applied for 2 weeks, to treat dermatitis cause any delays or concerns in the testing process?

I already had a 7 week hiv test negative PRIOR to the start of the cream treatment.  Planning on doing the 3 month test just to be sure.  
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Took me a bit to respond but thanks for the advice.  
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188761 tn?1584567620
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No. HIV testing not warranted.
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Should I even worry about HIV testing?
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188761 tn?1584567620
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None of the incidences that you have mentioned above put you in to HIV contraction risk. From what you have mentioned above, I couldn't see any thing that mentions unprotected penetrative sex or any thing else that puts you in to risk. Oral with protection / with out protection is no risk.

HIV is spread by direct contact with infected body fluids, including blood, semen, vaginal secretions and breast milk. This means that HIV contained in one of these fluids must get into the bloodstream by direct entry into a vein, a break in the skin or through mucous linings, vagina, rectum or penis. Other body fluids such as urine, saliva, vomit, etc., do not pose a risk.

HIV is not easily transmissible. Unlike most viral infections colds, flu, measles, etc., HIV is not transmitted through sneezing, coughing, eating or drinking from common utensils or merely being around a person with HIV infection. HIV is not transmitted through air, water, food or casual contact such as handshaking, hugging, or use of restrooms and drinking fountains, etc. Casual contact with people who have HIV infection does not place others at risk. No cases have ever been found where HIV has been transmitted through casual contact with a household member, relative, coworker or friend.
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