HIV scare once again... condom got stuck in anus while he pulled out. help!

I posted here a week ago after a "scare".

I recently had anal sex and while he was pulling out, the condom got stuck in my *** and he came all over my back. I really don't know if we were having sex while the condom wasn't on. (we switched positions and I got on my stomach and i checked to see if the condom was on before he inserted) atleast 4 minutes went by when i noticed it was stuck in there after he pulled out and came all over my back.  I'm pretty sure he didn't cum in me because nothing came out, but i'm not 100% sure if a tiny bit got in there, but who knows cause the condom was blocking the anal canal?

I'm always afraid to ask him about his HIV status because he always tells me he's negative and gets really irritated and mad when I bring it up.  I'm paranoid and I never believe him even though he has some papers from March saying he's clean of all std's. This wasn't a hook up either so, I was wondering what are the chances of contracting HIV from this situation? and should I be really concerned? I know he's probably having sex with other people (I noticed there was condoms in his dresser).


Please someone shed some light on my situation! Thanks.

[mike_no]

From what you mention, all I could asess was that the penetration was protected until the penis was withdrawn with some semen contact with your skin.

Not an HIV concern, you can't contract the virus in that fashion. Keep using condoms correctly and consistently, you should be fine.

[whaddupbro]

what if some semen had got in my anus? and I really don't know if the condom came off during those 4 minutes or so? am I just being really paranoid? It's just weird cause i'm 19 and he's 37 and I have this idea in my head that older people have HIV

[mike_no]

Even if there was an infected semen contact, it wouldn't have put you in to risk as this was shot up on your skin, he didn't ejaculate in you.

The virus is very fragile, it sperates it self from it's host as soon as it comes in contact with the environment, it becomes inactive. For a succesful transmission, he had to be inside you and had to ejaculate in you for any risk to be present.

Please move on, you didn't have a risk.