HIV scared!!!!! symptoms that maybe related?

[hellohello3]

Hi -

I am a 24yr old male. I had sex with a 22 yr old female on two different occasions. It was about a month apart between the two incidents.We used a condom the first time and then i think it broke and the second time we used a condom then used soap from my bathroom because the condom broke. after a week i experienced pain around my penis off and on and around my testicles...its been about 6 months and the pain comes and go's but is not as bad as it initially was...about 2 months after the incident i experienced (and still am) pain around my pelvis....my partner said she went to the doctor and tested negative and is in good health...and i talk to her almost everyday because she is a close friend and she is always the happiest person...

As i said before, this pain comes and goes and i went to the doctor and tested NEGATIVE for chlymydia and gonorrhea and he looked at my urine and said it looked fine...

wondering what my chances are for HIV????
or if any of these symptoms sound like HIV???

if not, what could it possibly be??

i worry about this every day and am so scared...i worry about everything, but this im deeply scared by:(

[Teak]

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[hellohello3]

i took a rapid oral hiv test after 7 months and it came out negative!!!! :) Now my question is, how reliable are those tests???

thank you in advance

[LIZZIE LOU]

:)

[bratesha]

you are truly a angel right away i felt at ease i never felt nothing like it. no more sex for me. no more only school and church. am going to stop looking for love and let it find me.

[LIZZIE LOU]

i'm glad that you feel better.

now put this out of your head and move on with your life.  you have no reason to continue posting on a hiv forum.

[bratesha]

Thank lizzie lou am very sorry again for upsetting you i know it doesn't make since if i don't even know? But i figure that the guy thinks am so ugly that he could do such a thing to me. Even if i am so ugly he still should have told me? Don't you think especially if i asked him to use protection. With or with out a condom we have a right to know about someones hiv status before catching feeling for someone. i feel so dumb. i've been hurt all my life and i can't find love. the guy keeps telling me he hiv negative, i asked him like a hundred times. he keeps saying no. you put my mind at ease i can feel it. it feels good. i've been in a box for the  whole seven months. whooh i can feel my body start to relax and it's better than my negative results. thank you. pls be my friend

[LIZZIE LOU]

a conclusive test is at 3 months post exposure.

[bratesha]

lizzie lou i apoligized to him and he is infact hiv or aids positive he has it on his profile. i didn't know just judging by the way he was attacking me i figured he was. Am only scared is because i don't know how long it takes to test positive when a test is done. it's been about 7 months and some weeks since i've messed around with that guy and since then i got tested three times and all came up negative. can you give me some advice on how long it take for your body to make anti-bodies? Pls help me lizzie lou am sorry for saying that about teak. pls except my apology?

[LIZZIE LOU]

unbelievable...you have condemned this man to the electric chair and talk about all the women he has victimized and you dont have any reason to think that he is even hiv positive.

YOU HAVE A RELIABLE AND CONCLUSIVE TEST RESULT PROVING THAT YOU DO NOT HAVE HIV.

YOU DO NOT HAVE HIV
YOU DO NOT HAVE HIV
YOU DO NOT HAVE HIV

[bratesha]

oh yaeh at the hospital the doctor looked in my mouth would he have told me if i had white spots on my tongue or purple sores or something in the mouth that relates to hiv?

[bratesha]

can i have advice from a doctor please or another doctor or expert? Is a cold, sore throat, stuffy nose, and snezzing  a sign of hiv? Recently went to the hospital and the doctor told me i have phangitis . Is that strip throat it doesn't hurt only a little when i swallow. It's been almost eight months and i have no night sweats. I've experience a headace today. But i am not coughing as much as i should be. a little hlp pls?

[bratesha]

to ifelixgonzalex i am very honest and i would never lie about getting tested. Especially 3 times. My most recent test was at the tampa health department. Blood work exact date june 29th, 09. I wouldn't lie because i want advice. Pls i am honest so anymore advice you can give me? I waited atleast 6 months and my test came out negative, last month june 29th made it the 3rd time and im not sure if my body has made anti-bodies. It has been since december since i messed with the guy 7 months ago. and he keeps telling me he wouldn't give me hiv and that he is not hiv positive or has aids. Why would i lie about something serious like that, am a very nice person and would never lie about something serious like hiv. If a doctor can help i would love some advice because am about to seek mental health for thinking i might be hiv positive when all three test were nonreactive negative! Pls help me doctor am so afraid and alone and teak is right on but the guy should have told me wheather or not we had sex with a condom or without. pls help and i will never ask about this anymore, besides i am going to take another result in august! Pls don't judge me am a human being like everyone else i am not a animal!

[cali17758]

Your symptoms do not sound like HIV, but your condom did break according to you so you were at risk, now your saying that she got tested and it gave out negative result so your chance is minimal that she may have it, the only way being she just got the infection from someone else and haven't come up in the test results, or her lying about getting a test.

If you still haven't gotten a HIV test get one at 3 months it will be conclusive!
Only if your condom did break.

That's all can say

[Teak]

Yes it does but it is your responsibility to make sure YOU protect your health. Please keep God out of it. He didn't put you at risk you put yourself at risk.

[bratesha]

is anyone else here besides teak.?

[bratesha]

teak i did make him use a condom the ************ ripped the top piece off ! any person who test positive for hiv is told that if he or she chooses to have sex with a partner that the partner has a right to know about their hiv status. He intended to kill me and that's murder no matter what. If you are hiv positive and you sleep with someone wheather you use a condom or not you have to tell tell that person and if he or she is willing then thats on them. But, its murder and should be taken seriously. That guy deserves the death penelty. How many innocent young girls will he victimize? He is very selfish and should pay. It's not hard to be abseinent if you tested positive for something serious like hiv! Wheather you agree or not we have a right to know!

[bratesha]

i can't sleep am constantly having bad dreams. im so confused and lost. i wanted a doctor or someone to give me a answer or sometype of advice. and to teak, It says in the bibile that God knows what is going to happen before it happens. that why i say God let your be done. I am not scared of death but am worried about going to hell! I want to go to heaven when are time comes to be judged. I belive i have a very good relationship with God, and i also belive that am going to die soon possibly murdered by this guy or boyfriend! Pray for my soul somebody anybody.

[Teak]

You had the right to make sure you made sure you had protected sex. It is just as much YOUR fault as the other person.

[bratesha]

If this guy knew he had hiv or aids don't i have the right to know before he had sex with me. And i told him i wanted to use a condom but he riped the head part off. I've been asking this guy as a friend to own up to his esponsibility to tell me if he had sex knowingly that he had aids or hiv. That's murder, he intended to kill me with hiv and intended to cause emotional damage to me. I spoke to him a while ago and he directly told me no he isn't sick and that he doesn't have hiv or aids. i feel bad that if he is not hiv postive but if he is he is a cold blooded killer.

[Teak]

God has nothing to do with contracting or not contracting HIV. It's your lack of being responsible that causes YOU to contract HIV.

[bratesha]

is anyone here pls help with my question

[bratesha]

ive had sex with a guy and its been 7 months and 3 weeks since we messed aroun. ive been having doubts that maybe this guy has hiv? i don't have any evidence that he is hiv positive. I asked him like 100 times and he say's no he doesn't. I still don't belive him. And my hiv test were all rapid, 2 that were oral and one rapid blood test. All came out negative. how long do you think hiv can anti-bodies stay hidden. I heard that the sensitivity of rapid hiv test are 100% accurate, is that true. Recently i came down with something like a cold with less coughing alot of snezzing and a headace. IM so scared that i am in a domestic violence shelter. Pls help me. my doctor says i should go and get tested in august, im so scared for when that day comes. Can someone pls respond to me immedietly pls!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have faith in God and trust him alot! That everything happens for a reason.

[mo2000]

no one can tell you if you have aids....

You just have to get tested...

then you will know....

[hellohello3]

thank you