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HIV symptoms??!

hi ive just gone on a trip to china, ive been to a massage parlour where the girl performed an oral sex with condom. however, my concern was she used a yellowish liquid and dip my penis in it (perhaps it was some cleaning liquid, it had a burning feeling), i am scared that there may be HIV virus inside the liquid, eg. blood or body fluid
3 days later after the exposure, i had white stuff on my tongue and i didnt feel like eating anything, if i eat too much i feel like throwing up, this lasted about a week. also my stooll contains undigested food inside them. also from the 3rd day, i feel dizzy and weak, and i often had a temperature of 37.4degrees, this lasted 10 days. from the 13th day, i had an uncomfortable throat and feel like somethings inside my throat, also i often have headaches and body aches. right now, the 20th day, i realised ive been having red dots on my back and my bottom, they seem like pimples but smaller, and often they itch. i am wondering if these are HIV symptoms, and usually how long after exposure do the symptoms develop? i am very scared now ...

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229411 tn?1189755825
No prob, you had no risk and dont need to be tested. But if you want piece of mind get tested at 6 weeks.

It will be negative.
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ok. thank you very much bluebell81, i really appreciate it
thanks again
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are spicy lube very like non-viscious? the stuff she dipped was like very liquidish, very watery, not thick at all
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mmm i went back and asked them afterwards, they told me its massage oil, but i definitely felt burning and i really doubt it. i made a mistake, i didnt ask them, i didnt know what i was thinking...
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ok here are my Questions
1. do rashes take form of red dots? (slightly smaller than pimples or same size, my upper back mainly, sometimes itchy)
2. What is the usual fever temperature for ARS?
3. whats the usual period for ARS to develop, is it 2-4 weeks? coz i had it since the 3rd or 4th day
4. how long can HIV virus survive in blood or body fluid after they leave the body?
5. is it obvious that lymph nodes are swollen or you must feel it and decide?
thanks alot
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229411 tn?1189755825
You are being very very paranoid.

If she told you it was massage oil then that is what it was. Massage oil is normally yellowy colored and very thin like oil tends to be.
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1. No, they will not itch. Will appear on chest or stomach (most of the time) and many people who truly do have an ARS rash dont even notice it.

2. Usual temp is 101.5 and higher

3. 2-4 weeks is ARS. ARS will not start at 3-4 days, there is not enough time for the body to begin to create antibodies to fight back that early.

4. They die almost instantly when exposed to oxygen outside of the body

5. You cannot diagnose your own lymph nodes as swollen. Quit poking at them or you will irritate the gland and they will swell. Only a dr can tell you if they are by examining you. ARS lymph nodes will be very large and very noticeable to others.

Not everyone gets symptoms. I had every symptom of ARS 3 weeks after exposure and guess what? I was tested for mono and it was positive! So symptoms are meaningless.
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Did it occur to you to ask her what she was dipping your piece into? I know if I was a guy I would be very protective of my unit and would definatley want to know if someone was "dipping" into an unknown liquid substance.

I bet it was spicy lube, maybe to enhance the experience?

You dont have HIV. Go get tested and expect a negative.

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she dipped it in before putting on a condom, why would she do it if im wearing a condom anyway
and yeah my body often itches everywhere, and i get numb hands in the morning sometimes when i wake up
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229411 tn?1189755825
or maybe she dipped it in spicy lube?
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229411 tn?1189755825
You are fine. You had protected sex. Wouldnt you agree condoms are used to prevent HIV?

She probably dipped your weenie in antiseptic so she doesnt catch anything from you.
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and whats the usual fever temperature for ARS?
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are the dots rashes?
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