You are asking a question which goes beyond the limits of currently available scientifically proven data. That said, I think we can come up with a reasonably logical answer.
Your statistics are
correctCorrect (new formula)--this risk of acquiring HIV if you, or your partner has herpes is increased. This increase occurs irrespective of whether or not lesions are present and are the average of observations from lots of people taken over time. Thus extrapolating to individuals and single exposures is difficult.
The is good scientific evidence that properly used
condomsCondoms
Female condoms do clearly and without doubt over protection from HIV, from herpes and from both together in persons who have both infections. The HIV viral load is increased in persons who have both herpes and HIV but there is not a specific viral concentration increase that accompanies dual infection. The average increase is about 1.5 (50%) times, HIV can enter through any uncovered open lesion so if a person has an outbreak with lesions, the lesions can be an entry point for HIV, if exposed. Obviously however this is still a numbers issue and while the odds of infection go up 50%, the risk from a single exposure is still relatively small. Not so small as to not recommend condoms and other safer sex measures but also not so large as to suggest that if exposed you will certainly become infected.
I hope this helps. EWH
When persons with HIV have herpes outbreaks, there are increased amounts of virus present in the herpes lesions, making them more likely to be transmitted to others. Transmission of HIV does certainly occur in persons who have otherwise intact appearing skin.
BTW, your post starts with the phrase "When I have safe sex with a person with HIV....". The safest thing to do is try to avoid such exposures, if possible. If that is not possible due to the nature of a relationship, etc, then the safest approach is to practice safer sexual acts, with condoms.
Hope this helps. EWH