Oral sex is not a risk. Lap dancing isn't a risk with or without cloths. Fingering and sucking nipples isn't a risk. You didn't have a risk of contracting HIV.
Teak.. that was a relief.. not sure why you mentioned Oral sex.. Do you think any of the activities I mentioned can be classified as oral sex.. I never had my penis in anyone's mouth neither did I put my mouth on any female..