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I went to a strip club after an excessive amount of drinking (bad idea).  While i was there a stripper gave me a handjob using her salvia.  She spit down on it and masterbated me.  Does this carrry an HIV risk?  After that, i i had sex with another girl with a condom on for 5-10 seconds (i stopped because it didnt feel right).  Now i know that having sex with a condom is 100 percent effective from what i've read, but earlier in the day i had shaven my pubic area and im pretty sure their was a cut on the shaft of my penis where the condom did not cover, so does this carry a risk at all? About 5 weeks afterwards i had eye pain that worsened with movement for a couple of days, scalp sores, acne got worse, went to the doctor and they took my temperature 3 times and one was 99.8, 99.7, 99.5.. the doctor said that was normal, but i dont believe her.  I got an HIV test at 44 days... it was negative...could it of been a false negative?  I don't know what to do... i've convinced myself that i have HIV and can't sleep... can someone put my nerves at ease?
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At 9 weeks you are not going through seroconversion.
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The vomiting and Fever occured at the 9 week mark i mean't.  Is that too far after to go through serconversion? I'm sorry i probably sound like a worried fool, but i swear these are legit concerns.
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Thank you to both of you.  Honestly, any reassuration is nice to have, but i can't shake this... it's been 12 weeks... about 3 weeks ago i had an extreme bout of vomiting and fever that lasted a couple of days and i've developed somewhat of a rash on the back of my neck... 3 large boils followed by some smaller red dots... is it too late to seconvate at 12 weeks?  I'm still worried sick... everyone says there is no risk, but i still feel very uneasy.
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No risk from the situation you described, even with a cut on your shaft.  Vaginal secretions have only minimal amounts of HIV in them and your cut would have had to be fresh with direct access to your bloodstream.  Move on.

Symptoms don't mean a thing.  Your 44 day test is more than accurate considering the zero risk nature of your exposure.  
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Thanks for the quick comment.  I looked at your profile and think it's really awesome that you help people become more educated on HIV/AIDS.

So from what you're saying, there is no risk of contacting it through a cut on the shaft of my penis?  If vaginal secretion gets in there from what i've read it's possible to contract the HIV infection.  Am i wrong... Hiv sites say there dosent have to be a very big cut for the infection to enter your body.

Thanks.
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You were never at risk. Saliva is noninfectious. and the rest you had protected sex. So whatever is going on see your doctor because it has nothing to do with HIV.
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