with swollen nodes. Then next day sore muscle for no reason on one arm and strange tender spot on face. There is no fever. I already set up appointment. How bad off I'm I? Should I call an undertaker? I'm very worried!
Rubbing anything on the genitalia that was not made for the genitalia is never a good idea. No it did not increase your risk, but it can damage the skin there as it is very sensitive and fragile.
If your condom broke, you will need to test at 3 months after the exposure. The chances of you contracting HIV from this are very small, but you will still need to test. If it has been 3 or more months since this happened, you can test now for a conclusive result. I wish you the best of luck.