Hard Massage HIV RISK

[bobhppy]

please help me in assessing my risk with HIV.I had a massage last month at a chinese massage parlour.I was lying naked on the bed and lady massager was first walking all over my back and my buttocks.Next she gave a hard body massage and some times touched my anus and my genitals.I am worried about possible transmission from the pimples and cuts that I have on my body during the hard massage that would cause the transmission from her just in case she had some bleeding which got mixed with my blood from my cuts/pimples.

How risky is it if some one's infected blood comes in contact with open cuts/wounds etc..

Can HIV be transmitted thru massage oil/lotion used?

Also how risky is it get a handjob with cuts/blood/infected fluids on her hands?

I have got ELISA HIV (I and II negative) at end of 6 weeks with negative results,Do I need any further testing.

[LIZZIE LOU]

no ! ! !  you do not need further testing.  nothing you have described put you at risk of contracting hiv.

[bobhppy]

to resolve my anxiety,

I had a test done at 75 days and 87 days and both turned to be negative

but will it be a problem since i have skipped the 3 day period to complete 90 days

please could you please let me know if 87 day and 90 day test can make a difference?

do you think I m really over worrying here?Should I be moving on with life???

Any guidance will be really appreciated.

My life has been stressed out bcoz of this

[bobhppy]

Could some one please help me....

[Mitch82]

Yes you should move on, you had no risk in the first place, you tested conclusively negative, which is not a surprise due to the no risk situation, if you can't accept your no risk situation you may need to seek counselling, avoid massage parlours, even though what you have done in there is safe, if your prone to anxiety you will just end up back here after your next visit

[bobhppy]

Mitch thanks for your comments.

I think i m suffering a severe OCD problem.

I will move on in my life.

Awareness is a very very important thing

[Mitch82]

Try and relax, it may take some time for it to sink in that you are ok, but you will get over the OCD!

[bobhppy]

Mitch82,

thanks once again,i think its an ocd problem

i have fears that during my blood test if they have used the same needle used for other person

its again stupid and my ocd problem right which is creating a fear?

[LIZZIE LOU]

no one reused a needle on you ! ! !   geeeeeeeeez

[bobhppy]

its an ocd..that haunts like hell

Can I proceed to marry and have a nice relationship with my girl friend,

this was the only exposure in my life and i know it will be the last

all i want do now is to get married to my girl friend and lead a pleasant life

what do you say lizzie...

[LIZZIE LOU]

lizzie says "go for it"  :)