So I hooked up with a guy about three months ago for a date. Things got frisky that night and to cut a long story short...I ended up giving him oral sex and a hand job. There was absolutely no penetrative sex involved...but I did insist that he wear a condom during the oral sex (which he did). He disliked the condom though and would not orgasm...so eventually, he pulled off the condom and asked for a hand job instead. I did not give him any more oral from that point on because he refused to use another condom. A minute or so after he ejaculated (during the hand job), I noticed that some of his semen had landed onto a small 1-2mm wound on my little finger which I had totally forgotten about. I had picked at a hang nail much earlier that morning and had inadvertently created that minute wound. I freaked out at that point and washed my hands as soon as I could. The wound was not bleeding at the time of the hand job, but it was still slightly pink/raw and a little sore.
Three months later after that encounter, I developed several pimple-like lesions on my upper back and shoulders. They were not itchy, but a bit sore to the touch.The first three appeared over a single day...and the remaining five appeared individually over several days thereafter at random sites on the back and shoulders. I also developed a boil on my chest. During this time I also felt as if I was developing a sore throat...but no sore throat actually appeared...just a vague discomfort in the throat that passed off in about four days. I also felt that the glands under my lower jaw were a bit swollen and slightly painful...all of which passed off in a course of a week. There was no fever during all of this. Right now, the pimple-like lesions have left painless, non-itchy flat brown scars. Two of them had discharged a pus material before becoming these brown scars...but the others did not. Another strange symptom (which I still experience now) is a random sharp biting sensation on my body, as if ants are biting me. These sites change randomly and there are no apparent lesions when I inspect the skin at these sites.
Are these the initial HIV seroconversion symptoms (...the "rash" on my back and shoulders included)?
Did I inadvertently infect myself with HIV by having his semen land onto my "several-hours-old" hang nail wound??
Could I have contracted HIV from any pre-cum or semen in the condom while performing oral sex even though none of it directly got into my mouth?
I have been so freaked out for the last three weeks by all of these weird, unexplainable symptoms and I cannot stop thinking that I have been infected with HIV.