Head of Penis...exposed...HIV risk ???

Less than 24 hours ago i went across to a massage parlour in Singapore.....travelling on a business trip...

There i received a full body massage with oils from a girl. She also gave a unprotected handjob with some massage oils......whilst trying to get me erect she massaged the penis from the insdie & outside....by bringing the foreskin in & out & also touched the head of my penis with her bare hands & the aperture of the penis as well.....Now they had tomed down the lighting for the atmosphere & i wasn't really able to see whether there was any blood on her hands...or cuts that could have been freshly acquired by her....on her fingers during the process..as before the handjob she had given me back massage....

Her hands did seem pretty clean & soft.......well after i cilamxed she cleaned my penis in & out with a tissue....so if there would have been blood i wouldn't have known........

Now i guess in general handjobs are low- risk that's why i stick to them rather than any other form of sexual pleasures....My queries are :

1. If there was Blood on her fingers due to either a freshly acquired cut or miccroscopic cuts what are the chances that i could be infected with HIV infection ????

2. I'm really going on the assumption that there was blood involved & that she may have been HIV ve+.....if not i guess i dun need to worry but , but the reason i think so is that after the massage she asked me where i live & said she would be glad to come to my place for more....which makes me think that she may be involved in in call girl services or prostitution.........

I would be shattered if i were to be infected with HIV inspite of taking the lowest type of risk.....???

Please help me...............

3. Also i was speaking with her in the middle i felt her saliva splatter onto my lips.....which were severely chapped due to a cold country i had visited in northern europe before coming to singapore.....what kinda risk would this involve ????

[nursegirl6572]

Search the forum for a million posts of this nature.  What you did was mutual mastubation, which is ZERO (not "low" as you stated) risk!  Even IF the massage girl had abrasions on her hands.  

Getting a drop of spit onto chapped lips also is no risk.  If deep french kissing is not a risk...of course what you have described is NO risk either.

Put this behind you, don't give it ONE more thought.  NO risk, period.

[orient032009]

Hi NurseGirl,

Great to receive a quick reply from you..........

I have been browsing the Medhelp HIV & STD forums for sometime now & i only go in for handjobs & it's been known to be a low & in most cases no - risk activity.

I'm only really concerned in my case because of the possibility of blood being involved.....since if blood wre present from her hands it would certainly have gotten onto the head of penis, the aperture of the penis & the walls of the foreskin as she did a thorough job whilst making me erect...........& i had not used a condom whist receiving the handjob.....

I'm already losing sleep over this..........please tell me is there a slightest theoretical chance that i'd be infected if blood from her was involved........????

Also she did pour the massage oil directly from the oil dispenser onto the head & aperture of my penis...............so would this cause any contamination of HIV or any other STD's from blood or semen of a previous customer that may have been present there..........

I know i was foolish enough to get a handjob & should have sticked to a massage only....what are the odds ????

[orient032009]

The fact that the massage girl touched my exposed open penis with her bare hands keep replaying in my mind..........i should have been more careful i agree........& if she had had cuts on the hands or any blood from it would certainly have gotten onto my penis & the aperture & the walls of the foreskin.........

Is HIV transmission possible this way ??? have there been reported case (atleast one) where Hiv transmission did occur this way ????

[Teak]

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[orient032009]

Okay so what ur'e saying is that there's no way abosulutely no way i've had a risk for HIV given this incident....infact Teak ur'e post is good for me.......coz i really need to know there wasn't any risk.....coz i can move on with my life....

I would not have worried....if there was no possibility of Blood.....coz i know that's No - risk........it's only the possibility of Blood that had be very concerned.....But i guess i may have been halucinating..........coz the lights were dimmed & i cudn't see much!!!

So finally would you say even if i tested i would indeed come back negative ????

[LIZZIE LOU]

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