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Hello Community, a simple question for support

Hello everyone.

I have a simple question. Some months back, I red a lot about HIV and STD before travelling to Bangkok for a work. I came to know it is much higher in this city and I shld not get involved in any sort of sexual activity.

However, I end up hiring a girl from a brothel. She was naive and does not know English. She was very careful abt the Condom and I told her that I dont want sex. Anyways, this is what happened during 30 min stay in the room.

1- I was wearing two underwear (big sized) and she was nude.
2- The activities involved few kisses on mouth (no French kiss) other parts (no private parts)
3- I am sure, there was *no* contact between genitals, however, she wanted to give me handjob (5-6 sec) by entering her hand into my underwear, and I forbid her.

The only thing i am worried about is that,

1- She was from high risk country and a brothel
2- She was on her period as I found 2-3 drops of blood in the bed afterwards. This scene scared me up and I went out and had shower.

So in short, there was no sexual activity (protected or unprotected), however, there were body hugging and kissing while I was wearing underwear


P.S.
I am from a religious background, and afterwards sometimes, it created a great disturbance in my mind.

What I need to do pls?
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You don't need to do anything- you didn't have sex.
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Thanks Joggen,

So I shld nt  tell my partner abt this encounter, dont worry, and have relationship with a girl I am looking to marry?

So as an expert, do you advice me to "move on"

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Avatar m tn
Get educated.
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Avatar m tn
Any page?

So u also say "move on"...?

I wld be happy to move
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anyone?
I am just worried abt high risk brothel in high risk city?

Thanks a lot
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Avatar m tn
Yes--Move on.
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Avatar m tn
Ok everyone,
so If One dont have *Unprotected sex*, one never need to worry abt STD.
No matter the girl one is involved with has STD.

So sex means unprotected Intercourse or oral?
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All your STD questions have to be posted in the STD Forum. You do not have an HIV concern.
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