Help Help Please Read... Please tell me risk...

Promise this is the last post....Please dont ignore me as this is a major worry for me. Sorry please take mercy. I really have no where else to turn. I am 17 and cant tell my parents and an too embarrased to talk about my worry with my friends

My HIV and STD worries. I am also worried about STD's Can I get herpes, gonereah, clamidyea or anything else....

Exact Scenerio

1. A finger insertion into her vagina (seriously for a second). I simply put my finger in her vagina for a second and then removed it but Vaginal fluid was felt on my finger after removal. Changes of HIV infection by this. No known scrathes or cuts.

2. Massaged clitoris, top of vagina with right hand fingers, no insertion but worried about vaginal fluid traces or possibly blood traces which may have previously occured from her grinding on me with me with my clothes on and hers were off and then me directly touching my penis 30 seconds later with these hands which may have had fluid or blood traces on it.

After massaging the clitoris with my left hand for say 30 seconds to a minute, I then put my finger inside her. Vaginal fluid felt on this finger and then lets say 30 seconds later I touched/rubbed my penis for about 30 seconds with my left hand which I previously massaged her clitoris with (worried about vaginal fluid and possible blood traces on these fingers) I breifly touched my penis with my right hand that previously had vaginal fluid from fingering. Since it was a lap dance with heavy grinding (my clothes on) her vagina could have been irriated and could have had blood traces or vaginal fluid. What are the chances that fluid possible blood traces on my fingers could have entered through my penis when I touched it due to possible abrasions or redening during lap dance when I touched it. No cuts on penis but may have been tender.

I keep asking myself if there were traces of blood/vaginal fluid on my fingers and then I directly touched my penis about 30 seconds later how is this different from unprotected sex?

Do I need testing?

[nickyjohnson22]

No Risk, even if say I had trace amounts of blood and vaginal fluid on my fingers and then touching my penis say after 30 seconds? They darken the lights in strip clubs so I am just worried I might have also had blood traces which may have possibly occured during the lap dance. This is sheer speculation but I believe is possible and is compounded by my worry. So lets just assume traces of blood were on my fingers along with vaginal fluid and then touching my penis after 20-30 seconds is no risk.?? and the fingering? i assume is low risk???

Sorry, as you have already said no risk... I hope you understand... just worried....  

[mike_no]

Nicky,

You should listen, we told you before and will tell you every time you ask us about  it 'You were at No Risk', no test required

You can't acquire HIV like that, stop worrying, you are fine, your problem is in your head see a psychiatrist, it'll help ya :)  

[Joe C]

NO RISK in anything you mention

HIV Transmission happens primarily inside the body(eg. anal, vaginal sex), nothing you did put you at any risk. Skin is an excellent barrier to disease.

The only thing that is 100% sure of no risk is masturbation, however many others carry a theoretical risk. Anything can happen in theory. As long as you're not having unprotected anal or vaginal sex, or sharing intravenous drugs you are going to be fine.

Also you may hear of oral sex being risky, however recent sudies have shown that not to be true, and if it does happen on a very RARE occurrence, it is to the giver, and could possibly be due to poor oral health.

As you are still young, educate yourself as much as you can and take care of your health.

[mike_no]

1.Okay, assuming you had blood traces in ya hand; the only way you would have acquired the infection would be a GOOD QUANTITY, I stress on GOOD QUANTITY (more than 8 ounces) of blood ENTERING through the urethra and that's as good as hitting the bullseye being blindfolded, there's not even ONE similar documented incidence in the history of HIV (millions of people have already been affected)



2.Vaginal secretions:It would have been the vaginal secretion only with out any thing else since in HIV positive females the virus is high up in the cervix and it's a bit difficult that the vaginal secretions would have contained the virus, also the virus dies as soon as it comes in contact with the air (not even one documented case through similar incidence) 3. Practically fingering is at NO RISK, it would have been a risk only if you had a FRESH cut (cut at that very instance) and were to be bleeding PROFUSELY, I repeat PROFUSELY

Your fears are irrational and you're cookin up stories in your mind,get off the internet searching for HIV related info ASAP, that's what causing your paranoia