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Help please so scared


Hello,

On july 17 i had unprotected oral with some person i meet at bar. I had sex with her for like 2 min with condom then decided to get a blow job because we was in car and it didnt feel comf but the condom never broke or anything. Beggining of september my penis head started to get ichy and dry i visit doctor he said i had balatinis gave me cream and it cured. Mid september 15 i didnt feel like myself i was getting chills, fatigue, sometimes sweats at night and day when i would worry about it,, my throat was bothering me it wasnt sore but it was just irritating me my tonsilis where swollen and they still are!! So i decided to go to my doc and get tested.
7 weeks after sex exposure with elisa negative!
Then i decided to go to clinic because i still wasnt feeling myself at clinic i tested rapid hiv test 1/2 negative* this was week 11. I was afraid still i felt better for 2 days then worries again so i decided to go to clinic again and test with oraquick this time and week 15 and test came back negative* at the clinic where i tested with oraquick the nurse scared me bacause she said u need to come back in december to test for which would be month 6 then i started to get scared again night sweats started again, fatigue maybe because not getting enough sleep because of worries dont know my throat still bothers me and i get night sweats here and there. I went to pharmacy last week and got oraquick test myself and was negative this was month 18. Please help me im losin it...... The person i had sex with she told me she was clean she even show me her resoults they were negative but she could maybe lie i dont know make a fake report god knows.

*elisa test week 7 negative
*rapid blood week 11 negative hiv specialist dlnt come again you dont have hiv
* oraquick week 15 negative nurse said come back in month 6
*oraquick week 18 negative test myself

What should i do now?
My neck musles are sore bodyache dont get enough sleep sometimes i get night sweats sometimes headaches give me advice should i test next month do i have something? Ugh

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I had few syptomns ugh thats why i havent move on. Its like every day i get new syptoms and it goes away withiin a day and a new syptomn start its like a routine.. Maybe it could be stress i dont know.  Thanks for your help anyways i appreciate it
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No. I told you, the oraquick test is conclusive at 12 weeks. You did not acquire HIV from the exposure you describe. You've wasted almost half a year worrying about a NO risk exposure. Its time you move on.
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It has been almost 5 months now do you think i should get tested one more time?
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First, you did not experience a risk for HIV. Second, your test results are conclusive.  The nurse was incorrect. The Oraquick test is conclusive at 12 weeks.
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