Hiv Cunnilingus Extenuating Circumstances

Hey all,
I made a silly mistake about a month ago. I went to a strip club that wasn't very reputable in a not so good part of town. Any way I was drunk and the strippers were dancing on peoples faces. The stripper then started fingering herself and then proceeded to do a dance on my face and I dumbly stuck my tongue out and touched my tongue to her vag. I don't know if it was just the skin or if it was actually inside her vagina. I had been drinking and I ate some nachos with jalapenos and this inflamed my taste buds. I think this may have caused me to be more at risk. Anyway I developed 2 weeks later diarrhea, muscle and joint aches, maybe swollen lymph nodes, a bit of a sore throat, itchiness all over including my scalp which drove me crazy

[baggomileski]

is this possible ars? I have been pretty confident that it wasn't until everything started happening. Does her fingering herself make it more likely to have brought the infectious stuff out? The inflamed taste buds change anything? This has been pretty traumatic.

[LIZZIE LOU]

you had no risk...with or without the jalapenos

[baggomileski]

Thank Lizzie!

[baggomileski]

Just got a test at 6 weeks today...awaiting results...kinda nervous

[Teak]

You never had a risk.

[peace12345]

Regarding your oral sex exposure
Oh yeah bro i have found the link again this is the only guide here in UK where they have specifically written receiving oral sex isnt a risk i found it for my previous exposure http://www.tht.org.uk/informationresources/publications/general/understandinghivv5212.pdf
HIV is not usually passed on when:
• a man who does not have HIV receives oral
sex (has it done to him) from someone who
is HIV positive
• a woman receives oral sex (has it done to her)
from someone who is HIV positive

http://www.nhs.uk/Livewell/STIs/Pages/ExpertAnswers.aspx#HIV
Dr. Patrick French says:
"Providing that you don't have unprotected (without a condom) vaginal or anal sex, it's very unlikely that you'll be at risk of HIV. There's no risk of getting HIV from kissing and touching.

"If you give a man oral sex, there's a small risk of getting HIV, particularly if he comes in your mouth. Some people use condoms (you can get flavoured condoms) for oral sex.

"There's no risk of HIV if a man gives you oral sex."  
i guess this answer was given with reference to gay men but still it is relevant. As you can see most experts consider oral sex as a very low risk when giving oral to a man specially with ejaculation in mouth but both getting a blowjob and giving oral to women is not considered a risk at all.

[Teak]

There is no risk of contracting HIV from oral sex, giving or receiving.

[peace12345]

Yeah i know oral sex is safe sex but among various oral sex categories the only thing considered low risk is giving oral sex to a man specially with ejaculation. This is what i have found out from most experts and also aidsmeds forum of which you are a member too cheers

[Teak]

It's not a low risk it's NO RISK.

[baggomileski]

My 6 week was neg...could I have gotten hsv 2 from this experience?

[Teak]

You'll have to post in the proper forum. This forum is HIV specific.