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Hiv exposure...Pls help anxiety killing me

Dear Sir/Madam, I am 35 year uncircumcised male from India. On 14 June had unprotected insertive oral blowjob from Chinese escort lady for about 15 minutes in UAE but no visible blood was present. In between there was a kissing also. While kissing and unprotected oral she used lot of saliva. Then we had thin latex condom protected vaginal sex for 15-20 seconds. There was no slip or breakage of condom. I ejaculated by her handjob. After a week  I am having mild fever, neck and back ache and sometimes leg muscle ache, little lymphnode under armpit, dry cough, sweaty and cold feet, extreme fatigue etc. All the ars symptoms. Although not extreme. I am planning to get checked after 25 days for HIV and STD's. Please let me know if I am at risk If she is recently infected and has high viral loads as I am very disturbed with this incidence.  If lots of saliva with high viral loads on penis urethera can be a risk of hiv transmission ? And if HIV PCR test can help after 7 days?  pls help

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3191940 tn?1447268717
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As I said above, anything else you can think of is not a risk.

You had no risk and do not need to test.
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Thank you for reassuring but I have extreme fatigue in legs,  back muscle ache and extreme gastric problem that I am unable to eat properly. Yesterday had vomited also. Do you think all this anxiety related or may be I am seroconverting. I am unable to sleep due to panic attacks. Pls advice if PCR hiv test will be helpful?
Thanks...
Pls reply... I am unable to control my anxiety...is this ars?  Shall I get checked by PCR hiv test?
3191940 tn?1447268717
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Nothing you did put you at risk for HIV.  

HIV is transmitted by 1) having unprotected, penetrative anal or vaginal sex, or 2) sharing IV drug equipment with other IV drug users.

Anything else you can think of is not a risk. Whatever symptoms you are experiencing are caused by something else - it is NOT HIV as you had NO RISK for HIV.
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Thank you doctor... This is so assuring... I also thought it to be no risk activity. But it still is possible to transmit in some conditions as I fear as above. Also symptoms seems exactly of hiv ars. Please let me know if I get tested with PCR TEST?  I don't want passing to my wife so just wants to be sure...

Thanks again...
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Pls help anyone....please reply...
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