Hiv risk

Hi Teak Adamanite
Thanks for reply.
I read different literature that  says skin marks are non distinct, or not need be large rash. and often ulcer associated....
From my full description below how likely you think my symptoms are....Im very worried
Could it be another STD?
...Or could all this be stress....
Please send this to appropriate forums.
Hiv may be one, but Ive had differing opinions....some say no and others say my skin conditions spots and marks are variable. Can it be anything else...
Please advise if my symptoms could be any other STD...
Or if this has been known to HIV.
Here goes

I put myself in a high risk situation with a Thai prostitute in and the condom broke. I stopped immediately when she told me....Ive been worried sick about HIV. She said she was ok, but was very blaazay
I foolishly had sex with my partner within 1 days. This was 3 weeks ago....I have abstained since
What is my partners likelihood of contraction if I had contracted 1 days earlier?
After 6 days we both had some gastro issues...Light loose stools (not Diareah), guts rumbling, much burping.
This passed after another 10 days.
My partner had a bloated stomach and sore spleen...(I read this could be a symptom of HIV)  
From about 10 days I noticed I got a few more dark coloured marks resembling moles. Its seems more than usual and some darker.
I have a mark to the right of my eye resembling a small rash.
Today (day 22) it is more red in colour seems about half size of a quarter coin, and still there.
My partner so far has no rashes new moles, or marks spots like me.
I also got a large ulcer in my mouth afew days ago (around day 18), which my partner also has.
It seems to be going now....but Ive had a lingering argh cough and my throat is ever so slightly sore when I swallow.
My partner so far she has no rashes new moles, or marks spots like me.
Some small pimple (but not) spots have also appeared. 3 Red dots on my shoulder...theyve been there nearly 2 weeks. Not a pimple and not a boil.  similar
Its hard to tell if my glands have been up...Im worried sick...
In my research on the internet some say this is possible HIV symptoms. Some say not.
Is it more distinct or could it be Hiv...
Could this be another STD?
So far I did not get any large rashes itching, or pain when I pee, or large spots on my penis
(though it seems as if I have 1 or 2 very tiny moles on my penis (hard to be sure), or any bad flu after exposure.
Could it be other STD even though no spots or discharge on my penis?
I will get tested for all stds,
Could my mark near my eye for 2 weeks and small pimple things on shoulder be stress?
Ive been worried sick. Any words appreciated even though I know I must get tested in a week 28 days...and again later.
If this is indeed HIV then would my test next week show?

[Teak]

Symptoms don't come on that quick for ARS.