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How long does HIV survive after ejaculation?
I'm quite sure I am HIV negative, I have just gotten out of a monogamous gay relationship of 2 years, and have started dating a guy who has confessed to me that he is HIV positive. I am trying to inform myself of the risks and what exactly is low-risk behavior. We have shared mutual masturabation and oral sex so far, but I can't seem to find any information of when semen is exposed to the air, or any that agrees lets say. He tells me his doctor says the virus is dead after seconds when coming into contact with the air. Is it ok if he ejaculates on me, say on my stomach?
This is the link for my post which has more details of my exposure and current symptoms
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/show/378776
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/show/378776
Well for me the case is totally different . I only had sex once with SW in my incident i wore condom when she was giving blow job , i ejaculated 25% i would say and then she jumped on me , take my penis inside i made sure condom was all intact but she suddenly pulled herself at that time i notice the condom was not on my penis , however i saw it was hanging out her vagina . According to Teak/Lizz this exposure is no risk and i don't need test because of that incident .
When i do sex with my wife i don't wear condom but before i ejaculate i wear it to prevent pregancy and ofcourse that cover that fear which i still have in my mind about my exposure .
So if my exposure is no risk then me and my wife is okay but again if my exposure was risky then i am in deep **** .
I made a mistake once in my life , and i regret lot for this . Every day pray for my family and myself that God forgive me for this.
Since then (May 2005) i have been going lot of stress specially starting from May 2006 when i diagnosed Auto immune thyroid .
I posted multiple question to this forum and Aidsmed , they all think i am crazy as my exposure was not risky at all and keep in mind iwas only 30-40 sec in her vagina even that time i remember when she jumped on my condom was all intact , it was just with drawal that messed up.
Please pray for me and my family.
When i do sex with my wife i don't wear condom but before i ejaculate i wear it to prevent pregancy and ofcourse that cover that fear which i still have in my mind about my exposure .
So if my exposure is no risk then me and my wife is okay but again if my exposure was risky then i am in deep **** .
I made a mistake once in my life , and i regret lot for this . Every day pray for my family and myself that God forgive me for this.
Since then (May 2005) i have been going lot of stress specially starting from May 2006 when i diagnosed Auto immune thyroid .
I posted multiple question to this forum and Aidsmed , they all think i am crazy as my exposure was not risky at all and keep in mind iwas only 30-40 sec in her vagina even that time i remember when she jumped on my condom was all intact , it was just with drawal that messed up.
Please pray for me and my family.
Your not supose to wear two condoms though TI, that was the only thing, other than that your good, no worries. Trojan makes a brand of condoms called extra-strength, try that one instead of doublin' up...
chapeau,
I also pulled the first condom from the head, to have more gap between the tip of the condom and the tip of penal head. I had a doubt that's why I wore the additional condom.
I also pulled the first condom from the head, to have more gap between the tip of the condom and the tip of penal head. I had a doubt that's why I wore the additional condom.
Thanks for the encouraging words cheapau. I just am scared as I was stupid drunk that night.
Although, I and she insisted on condom, and I remember wearing it. another concern is I dont know how the condom was, after climax when she pulled it with the paper towel.
You have nothing to worry about or test for, your completley in the clear on this one.
I had protected oral sex and then wore one more condom for vaginal sex with a SW in Toronto.
I didn't check if the condom was broke. but after the climax I was lying on the bed while she removed the condom quickly (within 10 sec after climax) but I was lying on the bed for the next 5 minutes. I have a fear that, there might be some fluids spilled over the bed which might cause problem.
I took an elisa rapid test at two weeks 2 days that was -ve, Please help me if there is any early detection test?
This is seventh week, should I take another elisa now or wait for the 12th week.
I am so scared, not able sleep or concentrate on anything. plz help
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Rohit,
You awfully need some sex education, see a counselor at the earliest !
You awfully need some sex education, see a counselor at the earliest !
Are you kidding man?
That's a BIG NO!
You gotta wear a condom all the way through, everytime and for all types of sex.
If you know that little about hiv i suggest you take a break from having sex and continue to really find out the facts my friend.
That even a bad technique for trying to prevent pregnancy.
Hiv is transmitted via contact with blood /bodily fluids -vaginal secretions/semen & mucus. So this practice will leave you open to transmission Rohit, read up my friend, you don't know enough about hiv..
That's a BIG NO!
You gotta wear a condom all the way through, everytime and for all types of sex.
If you know that little about hiv i suggest you take a break from having sex and continue to really find out the facts my friend.
That even a bad technique for trying to prevent pregnancy.
Hiv is transmitted via contact with blood /bodily fluids -vaginal secretions/semen & mucus. So this practice will leave you open to transmission Rohit, read up my friend, you don't know enough about hiv..
NO, you can't have unprotected sex thinking just because you didn't ejaculate that you won't contract HIV. Haven't you learned a thing?
I misunderstood , mixing someone else's incident . So if you have control in your ejaculations , you can penetrate w/o condom and when you think ejaculation time then you can put condom, would that be safe provided no pre-*** .
Lizzy said she is hiv (-) man.
She said thet are a serodiscordnant couple, one (+) one (-).
She also said the condom is used before penetration, not before ejaculation.
She said thet are a serodiscordnant couple, one (+) one (-).
She also said the condom is used before penetration, not before ejaculation.
Sorry for asking personal question , is your daugther -in-law also contracted HIV from your son ?. Or she is save as they used condom before ejaculation .
There is a video on YouTubewith the unfortunate title of-damaged goods that is a doccumentary about serodiscordinant couples that addresses this. I presents all the perspectives that occur within these circles, it's somewhat intresting to watch, they could have done a little better job but it's still a decent segment.
you know my son is part of a serodiscordant marriage. their sex life is the same as everyone else...nothing is different. a condom is NOT used until time of penetration.
no...lol...i dont sit around talking to my son about his sex life...but i do have an awesome relationship with my daughter in law. she knows that i have spent the last few months educating myself and if she has any questions...she comes to me first.
no...lol...i dont sit around talking to my son about his sex life...but i do have an awesome relationship with my daughter in law. she knows that i have spent the last few months educating myself and if she has any questions...she comes to me first.
As long as persons that are in serodiscordant relationships use condoms for anal and vaginal sex consistently there is no risk.
What do you think about it when people engage in magnet relations, yet are concerned about transmisission?
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