I've read the archives and I'm confused... My therapist who is helping me deal with my HIV phobia says it dies within seconds. Is this true? Can Hiv that is still active infect someone through cuts on the hand that are the size of a pencil lead? Please answer???!!!! I posted previously about my "so-called exposure" at the hardware store... I'm really afraid! Could I get it from blood on a shelf at the hardware store with these tiny cuts (almost holes) on my hands if I touched the same place the wounded person touched?