G’day Doctor,
Let me congratulate you on this wonderful forum. Not only is this great
resourceResource optisource for information, I imagine it also provides people with the reassurance they can take to the bank …accept for the
paranoidsParanoid personality disorder
Paranoid schizophrenia
Schizophrenia - paranoid type who need not go to the bank, but to the Doctor for testing.
The way I guess my ‘similar questions’ differ to everyone else’s is that the issue of
HypospadiasHypospadias
Hypospadias repair is at
handHand or foot spasms
Hand tremor, and I have not seen a similar post.
I had the corrective surgery at the usual age (for those of you reading this I will let the Doctor describe this condition if he wishes, but this is a
commonCommon cold thing with baby boys (probably 1 in every 200) I would say.
With this in mind (and keeping in mind I have a slightly larger than
normalNormal saline flush urethral opening and some scar tissue around where I was circumcised (for the surgery), please assess my risk
Brief history: I am an Australian 25 year old heterosexual male (non injecting drug user) living in Sydney. A few weeks ago my new GF and I are considering commencing unprotected intercourse. So these questions are to reassure against HIV based on that I guess.
1. In the past year, I have had about 10 protected vaginal sexual encounters. 8 were escorts (Australian sex workers) and 2 were one night stands with random females. Oral sex was involved sporadically with or without protection.
Is it reasonable to assume I do not need testing for any of these encounters as it was either protected sex? Or oral, which is close to zero either way?
2. In the same year there were 2 questionable encounters. The first was with an Australian brothel worker, in which the condom broke whilst I was inserting so there was probably about 20 seconds of total exposure before I withdrew and changed the condom. What is the risk here? Would I need testing? ..one thing to mention here is that I did come down with a bad cough/infection 2 weeks later however I guess the fever and sore throat could be attributed to this and it was just coincidence? The fever and throat only lasted a day.
The second was another one night stand with a lovely but drunk 28 year old female Sydneysider, in which we just simply did not use a condom for vaginal sex at all for about 10 minutes without finishing. I rang her the next day and she said I had nothing to worry about as she recently had her ‘women check” and everything was OK…she used the term “I am clean” ...but who knows?
The thing which worries me about her is she was not at all concerned about asking ME about my HIV status. You would think she would want to know at least?
Please assess my risk; keeping the corrective surgery in mind (my thinking is that if I have a larger opening, meaning larger surface area and scar tissue which may be an easier route through… I would be at more risk?
The point of this is that I believe my risks are low and I could take it to the bank that I can commence steady unprotected sex with my now GF, this is just to have a second (more valued opinion : )
Thanks for the info, I hope it was informative to other males who may have had this procedure.
Q: I had the 6 week test in March of this year which was negative. Would I still need a test before I start this relationship though?
I am planning to have another one in March eitherway of next year, if you don't advise testing before I start unprotected, and yes, monogamous intercourse with my new partner.
By the way, When I go I will be visiting the SHC at the Royal North Shore Hospital if that rings a bell.
I'm not familiar with that hospital. Sorry!
I should have been more succinct with my follow up question. \
The 6 week test in March ‘06 was a routine test. Most of the protected exposures and the two questionable ones happened well after that test, the one night stand (unprotected) being 3 weeks ago.
So based on that, would I still need a test before I start this relationship?
… if I’m a lucky chap it will begin this weekend I would imagine!
…or would I need testing before my usual March annual?
I guess this is more like one of those “…this is what I have done, is it safe to resume sex with my wife…” type questions you seem to get.
Sorry about the confusion!