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I had a semi protected sex with indoasian worker . am I at risk

Hi Experts,

Want your opinion on a fact I am stating for me getting infected with HIV or any other STIs

I went to a sex worker. We had oral for may be 5-10 seconds. We touched each other's body.

I wore a condom. And then I started rubbing her clit with my fingers for a while like 1-2 minutes. Then I licked her clit only once may be 1-2 seconds and then I had an intercourse.

I don't the position but I was on top n storked her for 1 minute and then we changed the position to doggy style. The moment I was putting my penis in, I felt condom broke. But when I checked it was ok and I made sure my whole penis is covered (but now I think it was broke, but for sure my whole penis was covered). So i put it back in and had an intercourse for max 1 minute and  I took out my penis I saw my whole penis was covered. But when I  put it back the condom slipped out and my penis head was open and by mistake I put it in for may be one or two small strokes..then I covered my penis head back..and had another for 30 seconds...when I took out my penis condom was intact..
She then sat on my penis and pushed herself up n down around my penis (made sure condom was covering penis) and then in 30 sec to 1 minute I came inside her n I immediately removed my penis out of her vagina and saw that condom was still intact.( I am regretting that should not have been so turned on and should have changed the condom as soon as I had a clue that it was broken)

I spoke with her and asked her whether she had HIV,but she said she doesn't have. I am not sure abt her answer coz she is a worker for a while.

I shared the breaking of condom thing with the agent. He asked me to clean my penis with dettol. I did so. But when I came back home I checked on Google it said it increases the chances.

This happened yesterday night and I have had my worst nightmare. I am feeling worst coz the country in which I am doesn't have sexologist to consult. I am going back to my home country India after a month. I am thinking of getting myself tested then.

Today (1st day after exposure). I feel a very slight pain on my penis. I feel the pain only when I pull my skin down. I see my head has quite a few rinkles on the head of penis. And also there is a layer of circular belt that has started to develop below my penis head n it's slightly swollen.

Please guide how much exposed am I to HIV and other STIs and please recommend some medications as I am in not availability of medical experts here.

This was my 4th sex with a worker in my life. In the last 3 I always used protection n I never had any symptoms like this before.

Thanks in advance.
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If you had penetrated her without a condom, yes, you had a risk, albeit brief, you've got to test. Test at the 6th week with an ag/ab test for an excellent indication followed by a simple ab test at 12 weeks to conclude. Symptoms don't mean anything when it comes to hiv, the only way to know your status is to test.

For other STDs, please post in the STD forum to have your risk assessed. Be well.
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