I hav HIV panic

Hello
I am a 32 year old male. Few days ago I saw little swelling on penis right under the head. It seems to me like these are swollen veins. So i went to Dr to check it out and my Dr sent me for lab tests, and to urologist. Urologist said it is nothing dangerous, it happens from inserting penis in dry. My lab test came out and showed urea 6.7 umol/l(border), and creatinine of 114 mmol/l(slightly elevated). Everything else was fine. My Dr told me to check my kidneys with ultrasound. I made an appointment and still waiting for a month to perform it. I did a research on possible causes of kidney problems and HIV came as one. I was so frightened. Last year I had protected sex with unknown person. however she gave me few strokes of oral unprotected.r I checked myself for HIV and the results came out negative. I didn't wait for three months after getting oral from unknown rather dirty person. I did it like a month after the exposure. I had unprotected sex with one lady 3 times. However she told me she checked herself and she was fine. Now she is married and has a kid living happily form my knowledge.  Once again I had sex-protected with anther anonymous person. Problem is that she gave me oral for about 30 seconds, and I finished in her mouth for another 5 seconds. That happened about 3 months ago. Since it was winter season I got a flu after a month without much fever and it relieved me in 5-7 days. I have beed catching colds more frequently this year. After looking at the symptoms on the internet I became very anxious. I have problems sleeping, eating. My energy level is still high. I also have this mucous in my nose that is persistent for 7 days. Back of my tongue is slightly white, and my lips are quite dry. I have bruises from insect bites on my body staying long and leaving me a little scar.

I am going to check myself for HIV in two days - That is the earliest available. I swore to myself I will never pay a person to have sex with again.

I am really scared and all I do now is researching the internet, reading about all the symptoms and situations.

What is the probability I can be infected.

Thank you in advance

Worried Larry

[diver58]

Never pay attention towards your symptoms, leave this assessment to your doctor, the right person to judge.

As you had unprotected vaginal sex with a lady whose status was not known to you, and that puts you under certain risk of HIV, though the risk is not significant, but warrants a test for you, which is only meaninfful and conclusive if get it done after 12/13 weeks of exposure. Oral sex is a non issue for HIV transmission

Though HIV transmission is not a game of probabilities and numbers but statistics suggest 1:1000 to 1:2000, never the less, it is not zero.