I'm really worried...

When I was 16 I was forced against my will into anal unprotected sex, I said no, I've been living in fear in my mind since then, I'm with my first real partner now and he saved himself for me and so did I vaginally. We both want to have children some day but I'm so scared that this won't happen, what if that man who basically raped me, what if he ruined my dreams and most of all my health?! I'm so frightened, even though I don't have any of the symptoms of HIV that I have already researched, that incident happened over three years ago, since now I'm 19, but does a regular doctor's office blood test check for antibodies-relating to HIV when a person gets their blood drawn? What about a pap-smear? I always get good results from the test except for the thyroid. Two months ago the nurse called me about the pap-smear and said I was healthy. The last time I went to have my blood drawn was a month ago. Please help, thank you.

[LIZZIE LOU]

if you want to know your status...you will need a test specifically for hiv.