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Thanks for your help James.
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Whoever they are, it doesn't pertain to you as you don't have HIV
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I was told the same thing at the clinic, very minimal risk according to them. Thanks James.

How about the tests? According to BASHH, they strongly recommend a 2nd test at 12 weeks / 3 mos to cover for the remaining 5% of the population. Would you happen to know what group specifically is that 5%?
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You had protected sex, no risk.
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The fever and chills lasted for an entire day only. Also, I had a flu vaccine sometime April and still got the fever (3 weeks post exposure). It freaks me out because I don't know if the fever was due to seroconversion or something else.
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Im a heterosexual male by the way. My avatar/profile shows the other way around. I have no idea on how to change that.
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Yes I do sorry. I accidentally pressed post again. On the 7th week, I woke up with rashes on my arms and legs. The rash on my arms disappeared quickly within 2hours and without treatment. I put gentamycin on my leg rash and the following day the rash was gone. On the 9th week I had a boil growing on my butt and its near the rectum area. I just did a hot compress and in 5 days it was already dry. Its now the 11th week and im thinking if I will take another test. The anxiety is killing me. I can't sleep well anymore.


Here are my questions

1) Have you heard of anyone testing at 4 weeks, and got a different result after 12 weeks (provided that there was no other risk taken)

2) Since the CSW was really wet that time, is it possible that her fluids might have entered my rectum? I think I had a hemorrhoid issue during that time.

3) Do you think that rash at 7 weeks is a sign of a delayed seroconversion


I am really confused and actually regretting the entire event.
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Oops I accidentally pressed post. Anyway, I had an encounter with a CSW in Vancouver. First she gave me a massage then I fingered her. I wasn't sure though if there were vaginal secretions on my penis. Then I think she forgot that I wasn't wearing a condom yet and she pulled my penis close to her vagina. I immediately stopped her and insisted to wear me a condom. I can't remember exactly how she slipped the condom but I am 100% positive that I had it on me until I finished. Sex was rough and I was playing with her boobs with my tongue and mouth almost the entire time (my apologies for the details, Im just worried that she might have had secretions from her breast). I also can't remember if the condom was intact which was really stupid of me.

Then two weeks later, my friend noticed a bump on my neck which was my submandibluar gland. 3 week later, I had fever and chills which made me freak out totally, but I think the submandibular glands were slightly smaller at this point. 4 weeks (29 days) I had a 4th gen duo test and it came back negative. Had my neck checked and found that the size was within limits though palpable.
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