"Redness in my inner thighs near my testicles" isn't a sign of hiv or any other std for that matter. You are fine.
Hello,
I am not sure which glands you are refering to :)
A brief description of your exposure is necessary tu understand any possible risk.
What you describe is no way a symptom of HIV and anyhow, symptoms are never an indication of HIV transmission.
I'm really worried cause isn't that where the glands are???