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Is there an HIV risk?
Hello All,
Would really appreciate your opinions please regarding the extent of risk, if any, any of contracting HIV.
I'm a woman and I engaged in some sexual activity with a male which I will try to explain as graphically as possible.
1st incident: I was lying down and he was on top of me (not wearing a condom) and he inserted his penis into my but cheeks/ my butt area, thrusting viciously with the shaft and also the head of his penis. At some point I think he might have come in contact with my butt hole (putting pressure on it/ rubbing against it etc) but I don't think he penetrated it because I'd have felt pain if he did in view of the fact that I have had partial anal sex only once or so, several years ago and I haven't had any sexual activity in that region since then. So in a nutshell, I'd say I felt pressure on my butt hole and in my butt but no actual penetration which I imagine would have induced pain or pleasure. The contact with my butt hole lasted for a few seconds
2nd incident : I was kneeling down on the bed and he was thrusting behind me... again, I do not recall him penetrating my actual vaginal hole but I believe he might have come in brief contact with my vaginal hole (the surface) and also my inner lips and inside my vagina area but not actually penetrated the vaginal tunnel (if that makes any sense). This all lasted for about a few seconds. I was extremely paranoid whilst the foregoing events were ongoing and tried to move away/ manoeuvre my vagina away from his penis as he was playing with my vagina/ vaginal area to ensure the penis didn't slide into the actual vaginal tunnel, even though his penis was on the hole/ within the vicinity (if that makes any sense).
No ejaculation. I examined his penis immediately afterwards and there was no precum although a few minutes later I observed a small drop of precum seeping from his penis.
He claims he gets tested regularly and does not engage in unprotected sex due to fear of STD's and HIV ( but I'm aware that his assurances mean nothing).
I asked him if he penetrated me and he seemed irritated by what he perceived to be a ''dumb'' question saying ''if we had sex surely you would know?''.
I am a hypochondriac and had a mental meltdown a few years ago over HIV- related anxiety so ive started replaying the events of last night in my mind and would like to confirm if the pose an HIV risk and if so, the probability ie small or significant?
Thank you so much for reading and I anxiously await your responses.
Would really appreciate your opinions please regarding the extent of risk, if any, any of contracting HIV.
I'm a woman and I engaged in some sexual activity with a male which I will try to explain as graphically as possible.
1st incident: I was lying down and he was on top of me (not wearing a condom) and he inserted his penis into my but cheeks/ my butt area, thrusting viciously with the shaft and also the head of his penis. At some point I think he might have come in contact with my butt hole (putting pressure on it/ rubbing against it etc) but I don't think he penetrated it because I'd have felt pain if he did in view of the fact that I have had partial anal sex only once or so, several years ago and I haven't had any sexual activity in that region since then. So in a nutshell, I'd say I felt pressure on my butt hole and in my butt but no actual penetration which I imagine would have induced pain or pleasure. The contact with my butt hole lasted for a few seconds
2nd incident : I was kneeling down on the bed and he was thrusting behind me... again, I do not recall him penetrating my actual vaginal hole but I believe he might have come in brief contact with my vaginal hole (the surface) and also my inner lips and inside my vagina area but not actually penetrated the vaginal tunnel (if that makes any sense). This all lasted for about a few seconds. I was extremely paranoid whilst the foregoing events were ongoing and tried to move away/ manoeuvre my vagina away from his penis as he was playing with my vagina/ vaginal area to ensure the penis didn't slide into the actual vaginal tunnel, even though his penis was on the hole/ within the vicinity (if that makes any sense).
No ejaculation. I examined his penis immediately afterwards and there was no precum although a few minutes later I observed a small drop of precum seeping from his penis.
He claims he gets tested regularly and does not engage in unprotected sex due to fear of STD's and HIV ( but I'm aware that his assurances mean nothing).
I asked him if he penetrated me and he seemed irritated by what he perceived to be a ''dumb'' question saying ''if we had sex surely you would know?''.
I am a hypochondriac and had a mental meltdown a few years ago over HIV- related anxiety so ive started replaying the events of last night in my mind and would like to confirm if the pose an HIV risk and if so, the probability ie small or significant?
Thank you so much for reading and I anxiously await your responses.
If you weren't penetrated, no risk. If you were penetrated, you had a risk. Take a DUO at 28 days
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