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I've had a questionable 90 days... HELP!!!

My wife and I separated recently over a VERY LACKING sexual relationship (once in the last year).  I moved out and have been living alone for the last 90-100 days. Since moving out i've taken to seeing multiple sex providers (escorts) in my area fairly frequently.  I know this is awful and bad, but I wanted quick hookups and did not want to engage in another emotionally draining relationship right away.  Anyhow, i've had mostly unprotected (cunniglingus) oral sex with these women and some fully protected intercourse with a few.  However, one particular provider that i've seen 5 times or so has allowed me to do everything unprotected with her (including intercourse) in fact she suggested it after we spent a few times together.  I know this was dumb, but I really felt like she was the cleanest woman I had ever been with and her hygeine is impeccable.  I know that means nothing when it comes to HIV, but shortly after having unprotected sex with her, I have gotten a cold.  Its not a normal cold, no fatigue, or loss of appetite, just mostly a dry sore throat, light congestion, and some dry coughing.  Nothing too serious, but it made me wonder if maybe she gave me HIV?  She appears in perfect health and displays none of these symptoms, but she still allowed me to have unprocted sex to completion (internally) after only 2 previous meetings.  She is on a birthcontrol IUD device that feels like two little wires inside of her vagina and claims that she can't get pregnant for 10 years so that is not a concern, but the IUD doesn't protect against HIV and Aids, and I have a nagging sore throat... What is the experts opinion of this situation?
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Get tested after your 3 month window.
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You test.
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