HIV Prevention Community
Just some clarification and help, please.
About This Community:

If you believe you have been exposed to HIV and want help to judge your risk, would like advice about HIV testing, or have questions about the effectiveness of condoms or risks associated with specific sexual practices, this is the site for you.

Font Size:
A
A
A
Background:
Blank
Blank
Blank
Blank Blank

Just some clarification and help, please.

Hi, everyone.

I hope you're all enjoying the summer.  A bit of background: I'm 22, bisexual, and have only been sexually active for 4 years.  I've only had 4 sex partners and I have never had vaginal or anal sex (if I would it would be protected); only oral sex (giving and receiving and never having any ejaculate in my mouth) and mutual masturbation.  I also always ask my partner's HIV status and don't consent without it.  

I tested negative for HIV 8 weeks after my first sexual experience - a conclusive result considering the low-risk nature and time-frame of my test.  Essentially, my anxiety is what drove me to the test.  But, I'm glad that I had it because it cleared my mind.  

The last of my sexual experiences post-testing have been in the last 2 years.

So . . . present day.  The following post of mine details an experience with a "jock itch" rash that I've been having:  http://www.medhelp.org/posts/Dermatology/Jock-Itch--Eczema--Should-I-be-worried/show/1270012?personal_page_id=1413052#post_5817572

Like the doctor said in this post, acute HIV is out of the question due to the short time-span that my rash manifested itself.  So, my current question / clarification: it's pretty much ridiculous of me to even think about this rash being a result of advanced HIV, right?  I know that skin conditions can manifest themselves with advanced HIV - but considering that I've only had theoretical risk experiences, many of which experts would argue as zero risk, within two years (only with two partners who stated that they are HIV negative), advanced HIV is also out of the question, right?  The rest of my general health is fine, and I'm not NEARLY as anxious about this as I was 4 years ago after my first test.  This is more for the sake of my own education and relief.

I feel like I've learned so much from these forums, I just need to talk through my concerns to get them off my chest.  I'd greatly appreciate any comments and clarifications.  Thank you in advance for any help!

Related Discussions
5 Comments Post a Comment
Blank
1366547_tn?1287367550
You have never had sexual intercourse. That means you cannot POSSIBLY, under any circumstances, have HIV. HIV is NOT transmitted by masturbation/oral sex. It simply does not happen. You describe an extremely safe sexual lifestyle. Continue to do that and you will always remain HIV-free!
Blank
Avatar_m_tn
Thanks for the quick response!

I appreciate the help.  So it's really that simple, huh?  Oral sex = no HIV.  

Just for my own education, rashes of my nature (if they were to result from HIV) would really only appear in advanced HIV right?  And 2 years is way too soon for advanced HIV to develop, right?

Thanks again for the info!
Blank
186166_tn?1385262982
transmission requires vaginal or anal penetration.

your rash is NOT hiv related.
Blank
Avatar_m_tn
Thanks, Lizzie.

Your advice is top-notch!
Blank
186166_tn?1385262982
:)
Blank
Post a Comment
To
Blank
Weight Tracker
Weight Tracker
Start Tracking Now
HIV Prevention Community Resources
RSS Expert Activity
242532_tn?1269553979
Blank
How to Silence Your Inner Critic an...
Apr 16 by Roger Gould, M.D.Blank
242532_tn?1269553979
Blank
Emotional Eaters: How to Silence Yo...
Mar 26 by Roger Gould, M.D.Blank
1344197_tn?1392822771
Blank
Vaginal vs. Laparoscopic Hysterecto...
Feb 19 by J. Kyle Mathews, MD, DVMBlank
Top HIV Answerers
Avatar_m_tn
Blank
palash
Dhaka, Bangladesh
Avatar_m_tn
Blank
hangon51
Toronto, ON
186166_tn?1385262982
Blank
LIZZIE LOU
Auburn, AL
7613937_tn?1393964502
Blank
ashibhat
India
580755_tn?1357673215
Blank
Vance2335
Buffalo, NY
480448_tn?1397235344
Blank
nursegirl6572
PA