To my knowledge, KS only occurs in advanced HIV, i.e. in people with overt AIDS. KS lesions do not blanch when pressed. Further, a negative rapid test a month after the last possible exposure is strong evidenced against HIV, although not definitive. Also, HIV doesn't cause a single enlarged lymph node (if that's what the swelling is), and a symptom of "slight fever" (i.e., without a measured temperature over 100 degrees) doesn't count as anything.
Bottom line: You don't have KS, but otherwiseI haven't a clue what is causing the skin symptoms. You need to see a health care provider and follow his or her advice. If your HIV risk was substantial, you might need further testing, but not because of any of the symptoms you describe.
Good luck-- HHH, MD