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Kissing and hiv

Hello iam a 28 years old male from greece. Six years before i had a french kiss with a girl. After that no sexual experience cause from fears. I have seborrheic dematitis as well none others symptoms. Could i be infected? Please help me.
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HIV cannot be transmitted by kissing. The mouth is one of the most hostile environments for the virus and is rendered inactive almost instantly.
Please let that fear go. YOU NEVER HAD A RISK.

Just because you have Asperger's and are afraid of HIV does NOT mean you are a mess! And don't let anybody EVER try to tell you that, including yourself. People with Asperger's are smarter than most of us! And THAT is a fact!

Don't be afraid to speak to your psychologist about these fears. The psychologists first and only job is to help you and he/she can help you figure out why you're frightened of HIV, and they can teach you how to overcome that fear. And please know that there are thousands and thousands of people out here who are frightened, just like you, and it's usually because nobody has taught them the truth.
Seek out the truth and your fear will be gone.
(And it's long past time you kissed another girl)
Peace
Greenlydia
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Thank you again. I am trying to figure out all that mess in my head. Yes all that years is a lot of time. I was only ´´killing´´ my self. I took my phd degree last month in maths and i think it is time to take my life on my hands. Thank you.
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Thank you for your help i am just be frightened about an incident with kissing transmition in 1997 in us. I would try to confess my fears to my psychologist i am diagnosed with asperger autism and i am in a terrible mess.
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370181 tn?1595629445
No, you absolutely could NOT be infected.
As for the seborrheic dermatitis, see a dermatologist. They have stuff these days to treat it...............

If you've avoided having any sort of sexual relationships due to fear about HIV, you seriously need to get psychological help for your anxiety.
Your irrational fear has stolen six years of your life. Get yourself educated about HIV and stop wasting time.
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