Kissing encounter Thailand. What is the risj

[VSAnxious]

Hello and thank you for your time reading this.

I have recently been to northern Thailand with friends. We decided to go out one night drinking.

I became extremely drunk. I was dancing with a very pretty Thai female. We french kissed a little bit and touched over our clothes. No insertive or receptive encounter. Although I was smashed, I'm guessing I would have remembered ?

Me and my friends then left the bar. That's when they pointed out that female might actually be male. I know it's common over there and it's ok but I really was convinced I was dancing with a chick, anyways...

What is my risk with HIV based on that encounter? Should I get tested ? Can I have sex with my GF ? This whole thing is so not me and feel very guilty.

No ARS symptoms except some fatigue and soreness from the travel jet lag. I hope that's what it is !!

I have a severe anxiety disorder and OCD. It has been eating me alive for the past two weeks.

I asked my friends if the list track of me during the evening and the said no. So I figure I wasn't assaulted being drunk as I was. They said nothing happened except what I wrote.

Thanks again.

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MedHelp adheres to the position of the CDC as well as the input of expert physicians that HIV is only transmitted through unprotected vaginal or anal sex, the sharing of needles, or from mother to child.  Those are the only risks for HIV transmission.  As you did not have a risk, we are closing this thread. We are sorry you are anxious and it would be best to discuss this anxiety with your health care provider.  We wish you the best.

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[VSAnxious]

Thanks again for your reply. I'm sort of sore in the upper back arms now, no fever no sore throat.  Is it from the 20+ hours plane travel or ars ? Doc says I don't have to worry...

[VSAnxious]

Thanks for the reply. I'm going nuts...even if my four friends told me nothing else happened and I remember the evening pretty well, my hyper anxiety is convincing me I was sexually assaulted...this spiralling downwards.

[AnxiousNoMore]

Normal people don't even think that they might have been sexually assaulted and not know it happened. Perhaps there is something that happened in your life that makes this obsession which it is hurting your life.

You should see a therapist because it is more to do with not processing the reality around you. It is natural when you think you are dying to let your imagination get the better of your reasoning, but a one on one with a therapist may provide a simple technique for you to be objective about your health instead.

[AnxiousNoMore]

All of America would be infected if you could get it from kissing. Zero risk.