I'm happy for you :)
I hope,by now you should know the importance of safe sex and the correct method to use protection. If ever in the future you get intimate with some one make sure you have your protection handy and you use it properly.
Mike
Affirmative ! :D
but believe me it was a roller coaster ride, the godmother angel wanted me to learn it forever.
Tony, I really appreciate every word here, you've been very helpful
Thank you
Mike
I meant that,
"Just after the condom broke mike pulled it out" If it is a common man it he may continue.Any way about knowledge. i belive it is always power. But you should think about what to belive and how to use informations.
you said
"see what is going to happen will happen inevitably" may be but you may change your fate yourself also by walking in right way
S
I Agree with you 100%..
learn from ones mistakes and lead a good safe life..
A:I agree :S!
Ex: What Dr. HHH says is not to encourage people to go for unprotected sex but to share his experience over the last 20 yrs of seeing patients and that's more of an odds analysis for some one who's real freaked out to calm his / her nerves however that doesn't mean one should go ahead and get in to risky business.
BTW: That piece of information is more applicable in the US and UK not Asia because here in Asia, the heterosexual transmission is the highest cause of HIV infection, I'm not really sure why but I'm trying to get that information from the doctor most probably I'll get that straight by this Saturday but any ways what I've read so far is the sub type 'C' (commonly found in India) is more transmitted through Heterosexual methods
Mike
Hey Mike,
Now that you are "out of the woods" I thought I could ask you a quick question.
You know I took the P24 Antigen test on the 11 day..Was the timing of the test right?
Humm?
Just wondering ...!!
exww: I have been reading your posts.. they are very good.. you are doing a great job..keep doing it...
thx :)
Congarts guys ...and Good wishes from my side
hii mike i wanna to ask u something u are from mumbai na.. i got my encounter there only i am from jaipur.plz don"t mind that .. ..if u something know about mumbai call girls then please tell me ...do they bother about tests..do they go for regular tests for hiv.....i am just asking your rough idea any.. guesses ,,, ??? please respond Thanks
Result : UNDETECTABLE !
Trust me, this is one day, i'll never like to recall ever in the future, so much of drama, anxiety and suspense.
I drove the way I've never driven ever before in the Mumbai city traffic, I've cried, I've laughed had the best walk by the beach all by myself for the first time in life, I'm glad that those painful traumatic hours have ended for me !
Can you believe a lab like metropolis goofing it up so big time, they missed my blood sample and they did not test it until today morning and to save their own ass they kept saying 'reports are ready but we can't reveal it over the phone nor can we send you a soft copy of the same' !
I went there and spoke to the lab incharge about it and he was humble enough to admit their mistake and they ran a test exclusively for me today (only done on TUE & FRI), I have the report in my hand and I can understand two things :
1. Not Detectable
2. No more ***** mongering business.
@ Every one who stood by me - I really appreciate your help and support, I'm highly obliged to you guys, I thank you all !
For all the WWs -
i. CSWs are not the right way to go about it
ii. Sex -> Condoms and most importantly USE IT CORRECTLY
http://www.aidsmap.com/en/docs/A3A8AC7F-76A2-4632-9015-9AD643811C60.asp
Thank you forum, you all have been wonderful, I love you all !
Best Regards
Mike
Congrats Mike..
Time to Party !!!
Regarding the goofup at metropolice, ....I am surprised !!
Its one of the best labs in our city...maybe the country..
Its unfortunate that you decide to get tested there for the first time and such a thing happens :-(
anyway all's well that ends well :)
cheers!
Congrats Mike,
It is true CSW are riskey. Even if people use condoms it is not safe.Things like you had can happen. You had nessesary education about HIV so you manneged to do escape from it safely. But for common people it may lead to disaster.
Even for you it gave some sleepless days
So i think (my advise to all)
Dont do sex outside your relations. Why we play chance games.
Any congrates to mike.
S
A: I've tested there before for the same test, the last time I was concerned about a risk. I really owe you a beer bash, catch up with you on the IM maybe we can fix that up some day :)
Thank you brother, you've been very helpful !
S: I completely agree, this has been an eye opener for me, thanks for the concern and every thing, you're doing a great job here at the forum keep it up :)
Mike
Mike so you're safe????
great mike I'm happy 4 u!!!! :) :) :)
never doubted you would be negative.. awesome.
have a great life. you have now a second chance to do the right thing. educate, encourage, what you have learned. condoms,condoms, condoms anytime and everytime there is an exposure risk. im not repeating it to you.
have you realised, we have all made history here. in the future, new wws will come and read past posts, and will be encouraged. and will understand that testing at the right time is crucial and leave here with a better understanding of safer sex. i was helped by many like xhost, dumbguy12,teak without even participating in this forum. i would only read for about 4.5 mos prior.
congrats mike.
tony
A: P24 at the 11th day is encouraging but would not provide a great magnitude of accuracy since it's a best test at the 28th day coupled with a standard antibody.
But thats for some one with risk, you don't have to worry about it cuz you never had a 'REAL' risk, believe me :)
I wouldn't suggest you to go for any further testing.
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Scared: I have no idea about them, I haven't really been with the kind of prostitutes you are referring to I've been with the escorts however I think even a sex worker would be concerned about her well being and in todays world show me one one person who doesn't know what HIV is, so I think they do test but it's a risky business, I've been there with my frnds and almost every time under the influence of alcohol, I really regret looking back at it cuz I have a beautiful girlfriend and I've repeatedly back stabbed on her. Shame on me !
However I've read your story, you were always protected so what's your concern here ?
Protected sex = NO STD (Including HIV) + Pregnancy
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Dindy,
Thanks Mate, yes I did dodge the bullet for the second time and learnt my lessons, I'll try an be a different man in life :)
Mike
My Friend,
I did not understand your sentence..
"You had nessesary education about HIV so you manneged to do escape from it safely. But for common people it may lead to disaster."
How would "being educated about HIV" help us escape..the HIV virus does not check if the person has any knowledge about HIV before infecting ...lol
jk jk :-)
I guess you wanted to say that since mike knew about HIV transmission and its risks, he could manage his anexity/fear...
got the point...
however, knowing about hiv, transmissions, risks etc has its own problems...
its people like us who search the internet about hiv, its symptoms etc etc and then start to worry!..
First we microscopically check our exposure... what if the condom was not proper, did my penis come in contact with any infectious fluid ...WHAT IF this? ..What if that?.. ..etc.etc..
We then start checking ourselves for any ARS symptoms and then start jumping around with fear in case we catch a simple flu!!
Now consider the case if we had not searched the internet...we did not know abt the virus... what would we be doing?
see what is going to happen will happen inevitably... its just that most of us loose sleep by the knowledge that we claim to have gained by www ing the internet.
Thanks Mike
I don"t know what "s the difference between Escorts and sex worker coz that was my first sex experience outside my marriage.
My concern is that """the condom which i used was raptured and when i removed{i exit coz of guilt[she was cummed} } that i seen a lot of grease type liquid on the top of penis with only a white dot like sperm and i had never seen any white spot or sperm like thing as my precum... what was that ...is that *** of the worker....mind playing games....
........
..... condom raptured---------------------the only thing is here is my 8 week -ve test
.... Grease.............---------------------but i don"t know the method of that testing
........ white spot......-------------------- that was like a home kit testing
hmmm..I see !
It's good to help people, you really do a great job, I like the way you present the information with factual data.
But haven't seen you posting lately too, alls well?
BTW: What I know is, there are beaches in Brazil, infact a many, right ?
You don't always need reasons to walk by the beach , some times it good to walk alone and think about what have you done so far in life and cherish a few lovely moments, I love to do that, beaches have always fascinated me :)
Regards
Mike
Glad to hear you're ok! I'm two days away from my result, the days go by okay but the nights are a killer.
Anyways, logged in to see how your test result came out, glad to know its a negative!!!!! Wooohoo!
Condom breakages are definitely evident. Man ask me ....I'm just trying to come out of it. :D
The oily stuff that you're talking about it the lub in the interior of the rubber, No worries my frnd, you gotta be thinkin too much about it, avoid it and move on
yeah i am trying my fren
.Thanks again
Congratulations on your result! I would do the same if I could, walk by the beach... It's a shame there is none here where I live. Well, I'm very happy for you. Take care!
Thanks angel :)
I was thinking about you today, I have never seen you posting any particular incident of yours.
Did you have any scare or you just post to help people and to know the subject ?
Mike
A while ago, I posted a question to Dr. HHH. A friend of mine was driving me crazy about a "possible exposure". I posted it as if the question was mine. It was a dumb question, but she wouldn't believe me until I showed her Dr.HHH's answer. I also posted a question to Dr. HHH a few days ago about "official window period", after a few things that had happened in this forum. So, since I posted that first question, I have been reading this support forum. I got interested and I'm trying to educate myself more about this disease. I also had an uncle who died because of it.
I think there is a lot of misinformation out there and it is a good thing that there are people here (doesn't matter the different reasons) trying to educate and help others about this, like yourself, Peek, Teak and Monkeyflower(cute nickname:-)etc...
So happy for you dude. Thats great, I knew you'd be fine!!! Go party with your girl and have fun!!!