Multiple oral sex. Worried.

[Mylani]

I have given an unprotected oral sex with 10 different guys but didn't have their cum into my mouth, sometimes only pre-cum. I just tried to suck them but not longer then 2mins. Sometimes I have a sorethroat when I did an oral sex, but I never had a tooth extraction since 2 years ago. can It be possible for HIV transmission if I have tonsilitis inflammation, gum bleeding, or mouth ulcers if I give an oral sex? And have 2 unprotected vaginal sex and 1 protected vaginal sex. They all claimed to be clean and HIV negative. Im afraid to take HIV testing. I am really afraid and in the verge of crying. Can I get an HIV with this? Please help and notice me please.

[Mylani]

Really thank you for your answers. Im sorry if Im asking questions repeteadly. Im really nervous and afraid at the same time.

[AnxiousNoMore]

You will have a hard time not being afraid unless you test so it is better to get it over with instead of worrying  all day, every day. Some people go for years not testing but it is a terrible way to live in fear, and all the fear  may be for no reason.
You don't get HIV every time you have sex if they are positive so the odds are that you didn't get it. No one can give you a risk % though, but they might be negative.

[Mylani]

Thank you so much. And other thing I want to ask. Please don't get mad at me if I ask things. Can I acquire HIV if I have a multiple unprotected oral sex or multiple unprotected vaginal sex with different guys who are HIV negative? Can I acquire HIV by the number of people I've done with sexual intercourse? Sorry. Hope you get my question. I cant organize my thoughts.

[AnxiousNoMore]

There is no risk with any oral sex so it is only the unprotected vaginal that matters. There is no way to calculate your % so you have to test.

[Mylani]

Thank you so much. My last unprotected sex was last July 1. Can I have a rapid test on August 23 and can that be accurate to trust?

[Mylani]

"You don't get HIV every time you have sex if they are positive so the odds are that you didn't get it."

And please kindly explain this to me. Sorry I kinda didn't understand it. Sorry.

[AnxiousNoMore]

I meant if the guy is positive then it is not automatic that you will get HIV. It is fragile and often doesn't infect with vaginal, and is so fragile that it can never infect with oral.
A duo test is conclusive after 28 days.

[AnxiousNoMore]

And if it helps relax you, RubyWItch said the same thing that oral is not a risk above.

[Mylani]

Sorry. If Im asking again. I just want to clear my thoughts. So you're saying that I have NO RISK of HIV regardless of those 10 guys I have given an oral sex with? I mean by the multiple number I will not acquire an HIV? Sorry. Im really worried. :(

[CurfewX]

No.
0 risk x 10 = 0.
Stubbing your toe is not a risk for malaria.  Stubbing your toe 10 times or 100 times still isn't a risk for malaria.  Same with oral sex and HIV.

[Mylani]

Just in case, Even if one or two of them is HIV positive, I still have a 0 risk? Thank you so much. Im really worried. :( Im just being confused by other articles that Ive been reading that they say that the Giver of oral sex is at risk of getting an HIV. Ive been out of myself lately. T.T

[Kirstie_MHModerator]

Hi there - we can't keep asking our volunteers to repeat information they have clearly stated previously.  

You have been given all the advice possible, and as you were advised, you can take a duo test any time now for your unprotected penetrative encounter in July and get your conclusive result.

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[nosexuntil]

2 unprotected vaginal sex with the same person or with different guys? if different guys the risk is higher.you need to get test and calm your mind.

[Mylani]

With two different guys. But they didn't cum inside. And they said that they are HIV negative. Im really afraid.

[RubyWitch]

You had unprotected vaginal sex and NEED TO TEST FOR HIV.

Oral sex, even with various mouth problems, is not a risk for HIV but IS a risk for other STD's such as gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis etc. You should definitely get checked for these.  

[Mylani]

Even I am the giver of the oral sex I have no risk for HIV? Because Im really afraid to get tested because of the number of the multiple people that I had given an oral sex.