Mutual Masturbation

Hi

I just have a few general queries really. I engaged in mutual masturbation with a man yesterday that I have just recently met. We did do nothing else apart from this, no kissing, no oral, just masturbation as I play safe.

I masturbated him to ejaculation and then myself. My query is whether I have put myself at any risk as I probably had his *** on my hand whilst I was masturbating which could have entered the tip of my penis. Would there have to have been a large amount of precum entering the penis tip to cause a risk.

I only practice mutual masturbation to keep myself safe but the mind plays tricks. I am wondering whether I should go and get some help as after every sexual encounter I seem to have this doubt in the back of my head which causes anxiety.

If I continue to with mutual masturbation am I putting myself at any risk.

Thanks for your help.

Alan

[H. Hunter Handsfield, M.D.]

Welcome to the forum.  But I have to assume you did not heed the "Disclaimer - Please Read Before Posting"--  or if you did, that you decided to ignore its advice to review the threads for other questions like yours.  If you had done that, you would have learned that hand-genital contact carries no risk for HIV transmission, and neither does getting semen or other secretions on the skin.  You are not at risk and definitely do not need HIV testing, unless a negative test will help you get past your irrational anxieties.

Whenever a person believes s/he might benefit from counseling because of unreasonable anxieties, s/he is always correct.  Since you bring it up yourself, you should talk to your primary health care provider about it.

Regards-- HHH, MD

[adl230478]

Hi

Thanks for the response, apologies for not checking the site further.

I was just concerned as am going on holiday in a week and wanted to make sure I hadnt put myself at risk for an STD or HIV.

Thanks for advising that this was no risk for either and STD or HIV.

You have a great site here thanks for your help.

Alan