My Thai Tryst

[Nivedh]

Dear Experts,

I'm absolutely freaking out after a few nights in Bangkok.
I am suicidal and I'm on zoloft for depression.

1) On my first night, I met a bargirl(an escort who works in a bar  in bangkok parlance) who said she gets tested regularly. We hit it off. We ended up in my room. I fingered her with my right hand. Its also worth noting, that I had a fresh cut from opening a bottle about three hours earlier. It wasn't bleeding. But I think I could see the pinkish flesh underneath. This was on my left hand & was about five centimetres long. I did not finger her with this hand. We also did kiss (DEEPLY) on and off through the night. We might have spooned a little but I had my pants on the whole night. I woke up in the morning and we kissed. She then gave me a blowjob in the morning without a condom. Am I at risk of contracting HIV? I really dont want to get tested. I'm not sexually active. I got real scared after the blowjob and cumming in her mouth. She was willing to go with me that morning to get tested but I didn't have the time. SHe still maintains she's HIV NEG.

2) The next sdventure is a bit more complex. I met a girl two days later. She gave me a massage. At one point, she was wearing panties and sat on my back. She then slid down to by anal region. WHat if some vaginal fluids had crossed her panties and dripped into my anal canal? She also gave me an unprotected BJ. She did rinse her mouth with listerine beforehand. However, her teeth were rather blackened. Not exceptional oral hygiene I suppose.Or they might be braces. I really cant remember for the life of me.

3) Am I doomed to fail in my medical career due to HIV? Will I cross this pit alive? Its been a week since my last escort  visit. I really dont want to get tested. I feel like the waiting after the test would suck the life out of me.

Please help doctor. Please.

Is this a no risk sit?

[Life360_Dave]

Yes this would be the  case that you had no risk.

[Nivedh]

Thanks Vance. I really appreciate your reply.
Put my mind at ease and tell me this would be the case even with the mini abrasions on the insides of my mouth.

I know I'm being a needy ****. But its just the gravity of the matter. Thanks

[Vance2335]

You had no risk. There are no cases via oral sex or kissing.

[Nivedh]

Kindly comment

[Nivedh]

Thanks for your comments.

I was convinced and happy. But my wretched mind came up with another silly question. Kindly bear with me:)

So, you mention unprotected sex, drug needles and mother to child as modes of transmission. Is this to say that there are no documented cases for other modes (Kissing, Oral etc:))

Also, I read the forums and many say kissing and insertive oral are Low Risk. Can I safely take it to mean I'm not at risk??

Also, I just noticed some abrasions on the insides of my mouth today. No blood or anything Just small abrasions below my lowe jaw. I'm not sure if they were there during my encounter. Would that make a difference?

Thanks a lot

Sincerely appreciate and live by your comments.

[Life360_Dave]

The risk of contracting hiv is from unprotected insertive vaginal/anal sex, sharing iv drug needles and mother to child not from from you did. These are the ways for even a risk. It needs a protective enviornment to be transmitted.

[Nivedh]

Thanks a lot man. I needed that assurance. I read the following article and freaked

http://www.thebody.com/Forums/AIDS/SafeSex/Q157374.html.

Thanks again.

Cheers