My numerous exposure

I am a bisexual male.
During last years, I received unprotected oral sex from many people who HIV status is not known.
I received for about 10 times.
Moreover, at one time, I not only received but also gave unprotected oral sex to the one that I loved.
He ejaculated in my mouth and I swallowed his semen.
Also, at one time, I received oral sex from double partners.
I mean a gay sucked my penis immediately after he had sucked another man 's penis.
My penis could be exposure with the semen of that first man in the gay's mouth.
I also want to describe one more risk.
I had an anal sex with a new condom but I didn't know the condom quality.
I also kissed him mouth to mouth.
I have done these numerous dangerous stupid things.
I am now so worried for my past manners.
I want to start my new life with new mind.
I want to love a lover in life until I die and I want to do useful work.
But this black past make me worried.
What should I do now?
Should I do an antibody test?
Can I give blood transfusion to people?
Please answer me, experts and others.
I want a definite answer to make a definite decision.

[Vance2335]

If you have never tested it is always a good idea to test to know your status. But nothing you did put you at risk for HIV in the above situations.

[jhguy011]

DO NOT start multiple threads!  

[asianboy]

I do not need any tests for HIV.
Do you mean it?

[joggen]

While nothing you describe was a risk for HIV, it is recommended that sexually actively people have a periodic STD screen that includes HIV. If you choose to get tested, you should expect a negative result on your HIV test.

[asianboy]

I had VDRL tests,urine tests for STDs.
I also had an HIV antibody test in Last June.
The result was negative.
But after June I received oral sex for about next 4 times.
After latest VDRL test in last week, I have no other sexual case.
I want to know that whether I need further HIV antibody test for this 4 times oral sex in three months later.

[LIZZIE LOU]

YOUR QUESTION HAS BEEN ANSWERED REPEATEDLY.  MOVE ON.

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[asianboy]

yes
I understand your answer.
But John 1976 say that I need a test after 3 month after last exposure.
My exposures were just oral
why he suggest me like this?
Can you explain me?
Whom can I believe/

[LIZZIE LOU]

and there are ppl that say the world will end tomorrow too.

you do NoT need testing from an oral exposure.  period.  end of story.

[asianboy]

thank LIZZIE LOU
thank you so much for answering me clearly.
Now I can move on

[asianboy]

ok
if so, if i give masturbation to a man with my hands and kissed him moth to mouth for a long, can I have a risk?

[Vance2335]

No, here is how you get HIV sexually...Unprotected anal and/or vaginal sex. That is the only ways.

[asianboy]

What does he mean?
Do I really need an antibody test at 3 month later for the above situations?

[auntiejessi]

How many different times do you need to hear it?

No risk.

No testing needed.

Aj

[asianboy]

sorry for asking again and again,
can there no risk even there are some blood or semen in the oral cavity of people who gave me oral sex?

[joggen]

YOU HAVE BEEN REPORTED TO MEDHELP, AGAIN.

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    * Continuing to post regarding the negative result / no risk situation will result in a 3 day suspension
    * Continuing to post upon your return will result in a permanent ban.