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My serious situation

HEre is my situation:

(I male)On June 28 meet a man of unknown status although I did ask him and he said he was clean at a glory hole and put a condom on him and let him attempt to penetrate me. He was in me for a few seconds but it did not work so he pulled out condom still in tact. He ended up jerking me off till I came. HE took off his condom and went home.

On July 8th meet a tranny prostitute in a hotel. She put a large loose magnum condom on me and one on herself . We 69'nd but I couldn't come so I tried to penetrate her but couldn't get in, so she jerked me off with the condom on until I came. AS for the tranny she did not come and the condom stayed on at all times.

Symptoms: On July 16 became incredibly tired mid day and wanted to sleep, then off balance dizzy for the next 3/4 days as if I was buzzed. Went to the hospital ER July 19 did not explain my sexual behavior to doctor. We took blood and the doctor said my blood work looked fine. July 20 came down with 101.8 fever with night sweats (no swollen glands, no diarreaha, no sore throat, no joint pain, no serious headache) just a fever. Took ibuprofen and went to work on July 20th and in the am took a ORA quick ora sure rapid test came back negative. Today July 21 still have fever. I am scared to death I may have caught HIV. I have never had any sex without a condom and only that 1 time allowed a man to attempt to penetrate me.

My question like everyone eles is what is my risk and when should I test conclusive. Please advise.
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Dude, the fact that you always used protection tells you that you are HIV negative. Your viral load was negative, etc. You might have been very unlucky that your illness is in bad timing and close to your sexual experience that makes you feel is HIV. Your doc has an idea and I am sure he told you already HIV is not your problem
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So teak after I last wrote fever was for 8 days night sweats for 4 glands in neck swell soars on one side 2 canker soars and slightly under the arms... Dizzy all 13 days...

I took a viral load test on July 26 (19 days from last sexual encounter) came back negative. And also had an antibody test on the 25th negative..

ID doctor says he is 99% sure toxoplasmosis although my extreme tired ness at inception makes me think different... What do you think about all my anonymous protected oral sessions through a glory hole? Could this be hiv?  
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Thanks Teak, I know you have much knowledge. Although I have had many many 'Protected only' oral sessions giving and receiving in glory holes. What are my chances I caught something?
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Hasn't anything to do with HIV.
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I appreciate your confidence as mine is not so good. So you don't think being exhausted and having a temp 102 is cause for concern on ars?
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3149845 tn?1506627771
Yu had no risk so you wont have any symptoms.
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Life360,

My penis was covered although the condom was very loose. My concern was the first encounter and his condom in me. Although I have this fever exactly 10 days after the tranny experience.

Does my absence of not having swollen glands disprove any ars symptoms?
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3149845 tn?1506627771
Hi, Since your penis was covered you had no risk for contracting HIV.
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