Need a little help

[scared man]

I was stupid and drunk one night at a bachelor party and was with a girl who I am not sure of.  She gave me oral sex and we used a condom in the beginning but at the end she had the condom off and got on me.  As soon as I realized what was going on I stopped and pulled out.  The next few days I was a wreck.  I never had any symptons of anything but was very scared so went and got tested at a little over 3 weeks after(24 days to be exact).  Everything came back negative.  But about 8weeks after someone told me that was to soon so I went and started researching sites and got really freaked out.  Now I am paranoid.  The really only symptons I have had now are swollen glands and I don't know if that is because they are or because I keep touching them every 5 secs to see if they are.  I have horrible tension headaches and was wondering if these symptons could be caused by anxiety.  I am now scared to go get tested again.  HELP.

[regularjoey]

You should not be scared to test again, there is a higher chance of you winning the lottery than testing positive.
Since you have HIV anxiety, just do it, put it out of your mind.

[Teak]

Symptoms or the lack of symptoms don't mean anything with HIV. If you've had a risk just test 12/13 weeks post exposure.