Need advice asap worried

Hi All

Very worried, I met a tranny of unkown status via internet and had insertive anal and inserive oral sex with her, the anal was protected but we used spit as lubricant, i dont think the condom broke but the room was dark and i didnt throughly check the condom now very worried if it could have broken and i wasnt aware, in he night it was 2 seperate anal acts. Very worried. the oral was unprotected.

[NormalGuy100]

Secondly I did ask the person there status and they said they get tested regularry, but since the person wont answer any of my questions about finding about definatly dates like she hiding something making me very anxious

[LIZZIE LOU]

you would have known if the condom broke.  hiv is not transmitted through oral sex.

you had no risk and do not need testing.

[NormalGuy100]

would it be obvious, i mean without obvious signs what would they be ? Obviously if teared it would be obvious, but like can they like tear slightly and allow infection or like holes form it was quite vigrous sex with as i say spit only used

[LIZZIE LOU]

condom failure is CATASTROPHIC...it's not something you have to guess about

[NormalGuy100]

ok so very unlikely even with inadquete lubrication ? second time i didnt ejaculated so wouldnt know as well if it had split you see

[LIZZIE LOU]

you would have known

[NormalGuy100]

so condom dont normally like slice open rather they completely fail

[NormalGuy100]

Only having spit as a lubricant is this a risk

[LIZZIE LOU]

saliva is not infectious

[NormalGuy100]

i mean more so using it as a lubircant on condom breaking

[NormalGuy100]

ive also got a lump on upper part of my  just below hip, 4 days after exposure could this be a infected lymp node

[LIZZIE LOU]

go back and re-read the first thing i told you

[NormalGuy100]

my memory is hazy and was dark so im thinking it could have broke cant be sure

[Teak]

As you were told, had the condom failed you would have known.

[NormalGuy100]

ok. just overthinking situation just something in back of mine thinks there was problems with the condom. Worse case scenario and it was unprotected what would be my risk of hiv as insertive partner 1 in ?

[LIZZIE LOU]

1 in ?

someone usually wins the lottery, dont they?

[NormalGuy100]

yes but is there risk statitics out there

[Teak]

You want statistics? You can be 100% assured that someday you are going to die. Now move along.

[NormalGuy100]

Ok. I understand my questions may be irrational and ilogical. But I thank you all for your time and answers

[whats_the_story]

Insertive partners are lower risk, on top of this the chances of a condom breaking are low too so mathematically speaking you should be negative.

Remember to always use water based lubricants.

[Teak]

Move on.