You didn't have low-risk behaviors - you had NO RISK behaviors. No penetration = no risk. For HIV transmission to occur sexually, an unprotected penis must be INSIDE a vagina or anus.
Frottage is not a risk, even if it was very close. Fingering and then masturbating is also not a risk.
In any case, a DUO test (Ab/Ag) is considered conclusive any time 28 days post-exposure and beyond.
You don't have any medical training so your self diagnosed lymph issue likely does not exist. Your doc confirmed it was not a problem so it is time to move on from trying to connect that with HIV.
HIV is instantly inactivated in air so is effectively dead and can't infect. There is zero chance of HIV from touching / frottage/masturbation so your doctors were right to tell you it was unnecessary to test. You might as well have tested to see if she made you male-pregnant.
No one in 40 years of HIV history got HIV from frottage and no one will in the next 40 years of your life.
Consider therapy for your HIV phobia because you are suffering in fear of a disease you can't have.
First of all, we can't diagnose you with a phobia here but do note that you are anxious and this is something you should speak to your doctor about. Your question has been fully answered that you did not have any risk at all. This will not change. We are now closing this discussion.
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Hi again everyone. I left one thing out that I realized last night in bed leading to another night of no sleep.
While I was masturbating myself, the woman lightly fingers my butt for close to 2 minutes. She had long nails and my fear is that if she fingered herself a little prior and had vaginal fluid, there's a decent possibility she could have cut me. Now I can't remember for sure but I may have had a little red on toilet paper the next morning. That tends to happen to me every now and again naturally so if it did it wouldn't have thrown me off much. If vaginal fluid was on her fingers and she cut me with her nails, could that be why I have these GD lymph nodes? I'm going to an infection disease specialist on Tuesday but just trying to get opinions.
Sorry for opening this thread back up but thank you.
28 days is conclusive. But as others said,no risk.