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One time, all of 5 seconds, unprotected vaginal sex.
Hello! So I posted the following on the STD forums:
"Hello.
My GF and I broke up and got back together again after a few months. The only encounter I had was the week we got back together and it was with a friend. I performed one count of cunnilingus and had unprotected vaginal sex for not even 5 seconds. Quick in and out.
My GF and I got back together and I told her about it. She got tested this past Friday for all STDs.
I have shown no symptoms since this all happened. But my GF developed yesterday painful urination, a green discharge, and I noticed two small lesions on her inner labia. Both painful to the touch. She says she has had lower back pain and abdominal pain. Sore throat as well, as we have engaged in oral sex.
3 days after intercourse for the first time in months she developed 3 quarter sized and shaped rashes(resembling contact dermatitis) under her bra line and one lonely one off near her belly button. This is probably nothing but who knows.
We're afraid cause the doctor hasn't called and it's been 4 days. I'd imagine if something was found they'd have call by now.
Tomorrow she goes in to get the lesions/sores viewed by a doctor.
Given the appearance of symptoms(less than two weeks of first exposure) and my 5 seconds of insertion, I highly doubt it's HIV though we will retest for that at the proper interval.
The trickiest thing is pinpoint what STD, if any, this is. She seems to have symptoms of one, but then another, and yet another. I doubt chlamydia and gonnorhea cause those kinds of lesions. She cried while urinating just now.
Can someone give us an educated guess as to what this might be? Why I have no symptoms and yet she has many? Some symptoms say Trich, another says Chlam, another says Gonnorrhea, the lesions/sores say herpes, and some even say UTI(which she has NEVER had in her life or even a yeast infection).
I'm really scared for her. Hate myself for being the cause of her pain. We shouldn't have ever broken up. I should've waited for her. :'( "
But now I'm afraid of HIV. Exactly two weeks after the encounter I developed a very mild sore throat that lasted like a day, and a mild ear pain for about 2 or 3 days. No other symptoms. I'm on day 16 post potential exposure.
Now, my wife has had a plethora of symptoms pointing towards some STD or UTI. All tests negative but she's still awaiting Gonnorhea, Tricho-whatever, Herpes, and I think that's it. The reason I fear HIV is that with all those the facts online say that there's an increased risk for HIV.
I doubt my friend has it but you can't trust people either. Am too afraid to ask to get tested. And IF she did give us something it makes the whole thing that much more uncomfortable.
Will my doctor be able to do the 4th Gen Duo test? I have never had it done. Most places still only do the 3 month antibody test.
What are the chances of me getting it from a ONE TIME, 5 second encounter!?
"Hello.
My GF and I broke up and got back together again after a few months. The only encounter I had was the week we got back together and it was with a friend. I performed one count of cunnilingus and had unprotected vaginal sex for not even 5 seconds. Quick in and out.
My GF and I got back together and I told her about it. She got tested this past Friday for all STDs.
I have shown no symptoms since this all happened. But my GF developed yesterday painful urination, a green discharge, and I noticed two small lesions on her inner labia. Both painful to the touch. She says she has had lower back pain and abdominal pain. Sore throat as well, as we have engaged in oral sex.
3 days after intercourse for the first time in months she developed 3 quarter sized and shaped rashes(resembling contact dermatitis) under her bra line and one lonely one off near her belly button. This is probably nothing but who knows.
We're afraid cause the doctor hasn't called and it's been 4 days. I'd imagine if something was found they'd have call by now.
Tomorrow she goes in to get the lesions/sores viewed by a doctor.
Given the appearance of symptoms(less than two weeks of first exposure) and my 5 seconds of insertion, I highly doubt it's HIV though we will retest for that at the proper interval.
The trickiest thing is pinpoint what STD, if any, this is. She seems to have symptoms of one, but then another, and yet another. I doubt chlamydia and gonnorhea cause those kinds of lesions. She cried while urinating just now.
Can someone give us an educated guess as to what this might be? Why I have no symptoms and yet she has many? Some symptoms say Trich, another says Chlam, another says Gonnorrhea, the lesions/sores say herpes, and some even say UTI(which she has NEVER had in her life or even a yeast infection).
I'm really scared for her. Hate myself for being the cause of her pain. We shouldn't have ever broken up. I should've waited for her. :'( "
But now I'm afraid of HIV. Exactly two weeks after the encounter I developed a very mild sore throat that lasted like a day, and a mild ear pain for about 2 or 3 days. No other symptoms. I'm on day 16 post potential exposure.
Now, my wife has had a plethora of symptoms pointing towards some STD or UTI. All tests negative but she's still awaiting Gonnorhea, Tricho-whatever, Herpes, and I think that's it. The reason I fear HIV is that with all those the facts online say that there's an increased risk for HIV.
I doubt my friend has it but you can't trust people either. Am too afraid to ask to get tested. And IF she did give us something it makes the whole thing that much more uncomfortable.
Will my doctor be able to do the 4th Gen Duo test? I have never had it done. Most places still only do the 3 month antibody test.
What are the chances of me getting it from a ONE TIME, 5 second encounter!?
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