Oral sex and elisa test

Hi all, i´ll try to be quick.. i met a woman 67 days ago, she gave me oral sex.. 52 days ago we had PROTECTED sex, she gave me oral sex also, when she was doing oral sex i saw some blood(very small quantity) on the middle of the penis(not on top) and i had no openings, 20 days ago we had sex again, with condom always, and she also gave me oral sex.. i dreamed that she has hiv, i asked her to go with me to do the test and her result was anti-hiv positive. i made my elisa test(67 days after oral sex,52 days after risk day,20 days after last time) and the result was anti-bodies anti-hiv negative. the doctor told me that this test is very good and that i could know if i am positive even 1 week after the exposure. i live in Africa-Angola, but the test was done in the best hospital here (it is an American hospital with angolan, brasilian and portuguese doctors) i have to add that i had no symptoms, i had a small diarrhea for 2 days, but i think it was because a milk that i drank, and tonsils-ache for 2 or 3 days also. the most thing that worry me is that the bottom of my penis and the (bag) where we have our 2 eggs(sorry i dont know the name) was red, and the (bag) as we call in portuguese, was somehow injured and was dry and the skin was like peeling. the orologist saw that when it was already 80% better so he gave me Atarax and Betnovate N, and he told me to do VDRL, V.S and Clamidia test. Please help and sorry for talking too much

[Vance2335]

You had no risk for HIV with unprotected oral sex.

[Niceman26]

Sorry i have to say that after i saw the blood on my penis i checked then she continued oral sex and i did not ejaculate in her mouth

[Vance2335]

Ok, it does not change what I told you.

[Niceman26]

thank you friend i´m better now, eventhough thinking, did i used the condom properly etc.... but i´m better

[Niceman26]

Myth No. 10: You can't get HIV from oral sex.
It's true that oral sex is less risky than some other types of sex. But you can get HIV by having oral sex with either a man or a woman who is HIV positive. Always use a latex barrier during oral sex.

[Vance2335]

And???? You found something on a website. I can find a million things on websites. Studies have shown that HIV is not passed via oral sex. No one in 25+ years of HIV has gotten HIV from oral sex.
Stop searching the web.

[Niceman26]

my only problem is: how can we be sure? no one practices ONLY oral sex, so we can know that he got it from oral sex. almost all people have several sex types in one night. just my opinion, you´re so more expert

[Vance2335]

Because the studies done was with 1 person who was HIV+ and the other HIV-. They had protected sex but unprotected oral sex. And in all of the cases no new HIV infections were found. This study was a 10 year study.

Also there has never been 1 report of someone receiving oral sex and getting HIV. Trust me a lot of people have just oral sex. Read through the forum and you will find thousands of people who just had oral sex.

[Niceman26]

that was more than explained bro, no more doubts from my side

[Checkup63]

I was just having unprotected oral sex. My last exposure was on the 4th Sept 2009. I am still very worried about HIV.

I have to wait for another 1.5 more weeks to test for HIV.

Niceman26 - I am also as worried as you.

If you look at the internet, some of the STD specialists quoting that oral sex did pose some risk for HIV. Very worried about those comments.

[Teak]

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